i too can understand the frustration,and upset .and anger sometimes, i waited 18months for another surgery ,which was on hold because of my weight , then added to bariatric surgery last year ,so my previous 18month wait was wiped!,,funding was approved jan 2010,cancelled ops and appointments ,mean im still waiting , told now def september ,but il not believe it til im on the bed,i think i done what i lot of people do,i stopped living and started waiting for my op,it was all i could think about and all i talked about for months,,so each disapointment seemed worse,i realised i still had a life to live ,ofcourse the waiting is hell,but it cant take over your life,you cant change the wait ,unless your in a position to go private ,so we have to deal with it by using the time to learn more and getting prepared,following peoples stories on here is a great way of preparing,dont give up your old life to soon,i know its tempting cos of all the bad points of being obese,but most of us have some quality of life to get enjoyment out of while we wait , life is so precious ,and our new one will start soon enough,and most post opppers tell us the wait is worth while x,yes il moan about my wait and weight ,but im not letting it ruin any more of my time,