Hi Emerging butterfly,
Have you been referred to Charring Cross yet? Do you have a date for surgery?
It's important to be aware of all the facts when choosing your surgeon/deciding whether to proceed with the operation, and that includes reading all the "real life" stories you can come accross such as those here from Hanan Ali and gingernutter.
However, if you are at all concerned by what you read here, you should have the opportunity to ask the consultant or a member of his team about the complication rates/morbidity rates before making your final decision. Whilst they will not discuss individual cases with you, they should be able to tell you how many patients (if any) they have lost, or have suffered serious complications.
Most surgeons up and down the country will have some operations that do not go exactly to plan. Its nothing to be alarmed about but it is essential that you do as much research as you can. The surgeon should be honest with you if you ask him directly.
Hope that helps hun, and good luck with reaching your decision. xx