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compliments

Paula1975

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does anyone struggle with compliments through the weight loss?

always had put downs for being over weight, had the **** taken out of, and some compliments seem to coming across in a creepy pervy way, but i been told by someone else that its bcos i dont know how to deal with compliments

confuddled
 
Yes, I think we all do until we get out own heads around it and start to believe we look fab x
 
i defo struggle with compliments,in my head i feel like the old me,things have happened so fast that i think people are being nice when they say 'wow look at you' xx
 
Yes its hard, I had a strange one yesterday, a lady at work asked if I was ill, I said no and asked why, she said she thought I was looking fabulous but was frightened to say in case I had a life threatening disease!!!

Its alll very odd
 
I havent had to op yet but on the milk diet and a lady at work said to me you look more pregnant now cos your belly has gone in more under your boobs and your belly is just there I was like err do I take that as a compliment or insult. But today the same lady did say you can notice your weight loss and she said how well id done and asked me about my what im gonna go through which was nice.
 
Yes its hard, I had a strange one yesterday, a lady at work asked if I was ill, I said no and asked why, she said she thought I was looking fabulous but was frightened to say in case I had a life threatening disease!!!

Its alll very odd

I was asked if I had cancer or had become anorexic. Nice. My work colleagues not in the know were just looking out for me though - nice to know they cared thinking about it!
 
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