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Everyone ignores me..

I don't know if it is because of my age or because I am in Australia and I can not find any one in Australia on this site but everyone ignores my posts. I had another user name named youngmumma and had 30 plus posts, with many views on each but no one responded to my questions.

Here I go, I'll try again.

My weight has been a problem for as long as I remember. I was severely bullied from a young age and because of that my dieting started at the age of 12 when my father put me on Slimfast shakes to try and shift my weight so I was "normal" for high school, but for every kilo I lost, I put another on. My life is a tragic cliché Not only was I bullied for being the heaviest person in the school, I was then bullied because I fell pregnant at 17 with my boyfriend who was a year younger than I was.
I was verbally, mentally, physically, emotionally and sexually abused. If it weren't for my baby I wouldn't have survived to see my graduation.
During and after my pregnancy I gave up on myself, I focused on completing school and caring for my child, I paused the dieting and exercising which caused my weight to pass the 110KG mark. No body told me the hard truth, no one mentioned my weight to me until I was told by my foot specialist that I would have arthritis by 25 if I didn't shift some weight. I was mortified. After my daughter was born at 20 I was determined to lose it all, I knew with my PCOS it would be hard but I had to give it my all. I have tried TF, Sureslim, Duromine, Gyms, PT's, Zumba, SureSlim, Weight Watchers, Celebrity Slim, The Cabbage Diet, Lemon detox, Juice detox, just to name a few. I began seeing a few specialists as my health deteriorated. One dr said he will not perform surgery to fix a medical problem because I am carrying too much excess weight. He said I have to lose all my weight before he will repair it. I was extremely cross with him. I stood up with tears in my eyes & said “you have no idea how much this is effecting my day to day life, I am depressed & suicidal because I cannot function with this” & he calmly replied “sorry but you’re too heavy, there’s no point in fixing it, I think you should consider weight loss surgery”
I researched and researched everywhere but knew without lots of money, or PHI I wouldn't be able to achieve it. I am a low income earner with nothing but the money in my wallet, there was no way I could achieve this. Until I found the Oclinic. I have had a consultation with Dr Craig Taylor followed by a consultation with his Dietician Caroline Shannon and Psychologist Dr Tony Robinson. I am now waiting for a meeting with a team at Concord hospital, where they will decide if they can assist me with the payment of the surgery.
I know I wont be a skinny girl but I am determined to receive this surgery and use the Gastric Sleeve as a tool to become a healthy role model for my 2 children, I want to ride a roller coaster, sit in an airplane and run without getting out of breath.
Sorry for the long story but thank you to anyone who took the time to read it.
 
Hello and welcome!

This is predominately a UK site but all are welcome. No one has been ignoring you, I am a site moderator and cannot find any posts with your other username. In fact multiple user accounts are not allowed and will be filtered out.

All the best on your journey, we have lots of members who have had the sleeve and have done really well !
 
Hi and welcome. The processes for getting surgury sound a bit diff to yours but the lack of support by most doctors sounds the same. I have a band but will answer any questions I can.

Lou

X

Ps I am only 25 and also have pcos, hypermobility and degen disc disease physically and bipolar mentally so I know how it all conflicts and how depression can rule your life. X
 
Best of luck with your journey. Hopefully you will get the support you need from your health service.

There's heaps of sleevers on here so a good rangeoif knowledge and experiences for you to tap into.

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Welcome!
I'm sure you'll find all the advice and support you may want on this forum.
There are tons of wonderful people in here!
Welcome again and good luck on your sleeve.
 
I don't know if it is because of my age or because I am in Australia and I can not find any one in Australia on this site but everyone ignores my posts. I had another user name named youngmumma and had 30 plus posts, with many views on each but no one responded to my questions.

Here I go, I'll try again.

My weight has been a problem for as long as I remember. I was severely bullied from a young age and because of that my dieting started at the age of 12 when my father put me on Slimfast shakes to try and shift my weight so I was "normal" for high school, but for every kilo I lost, I put another on. My life is a tragic cliché Not only was I bullied for being the heaviest person in the school, I was then bullied because I fell pregnant at 17 with my boyfriend who was a year younger than I was.
I was verbally, mentally, physically, emotionally and sexually abused. If it weren't for my baby I wouldn't have survived to see my graduation.
During and after my pregnancy I gave up on myself, I focused on completing school and caring for my child, I paused the dieting and exercising which caused my weight to pass the 110KG mark. No body told me the hard truth, no one mentioned my weight to me until I was told by my foot specialist that I would have arthritis by 25 if I didn't shift some weight. I was mortified. After my daughter was born at 20 I was determined to lose it all, I knew with my PCOS it would be hard but I had to give it my all. I have tried TF, Sureslim, Duromine, Gyms, PT's, Zumba, SureSlim, Weight Watchers, Celebrity Slim, The Cabbage Diet, Lemon detox, Juice detox, just to name a few. I began seeing a few specialists as my health deteriorated. One dr said he will not perform surgery to fix a medical problem because I am carrying too much excess weight. He said I have to lose all my weight before he will repair it. I was extremely cross with him. I stood up with tears in my eyes & said “you have no idea how much this is effecting my day to day life, I am depressed & suicidal because I cannot function with this” & he calmly replied “sorry but you’re too heavy, there’s no point in fixing it, I think you should consider weight loss surgery”
I researched and researched everywhere but knew without lots of money, or PHI I wouldn't be able to achieve it. I am a low income earner with nothing but the money in my wallet, there was no way I could achieve this. Until I found the Oclinic. I have had a consultation with Dr Craig Taylor followed by a consultation with his Dietician Caroline Shannon and Psychologist Dr Tony Robinson. I am now waiting for a meeting with a team at Concord hospital, where they will decide if they can assist me with the payment of the surgery.
I know I wont be a skinny girl but I am determined to receive this surgery and use the Gastric Sleeve as a tool to become a healthy role model for my 2 children, I want to ride a roller coaster, sit in an airplane and run without getting out of breath.
Sorry for the long story but thank you to anyone who took the time to read it.
Hi I know how you feel, I have also had very little response to many of my posts but the site also works in a way that posters need to be really active on the site to prevent oppertunists from getting in with their own agendas.
I know exactly what you are going through, I will make a private loan and pay it off as I do not have the insurance route to fall back on. I too have been on almost everydiet know to man, succeeding and then gaining. What is frustrating is that I eat healthy food and am almost vegetarian but have had a prolactin level of more than 200 times normal and was never treated for it so my body nicely hoarded fat for the baby that was never to be breastfed LoL!!!!
I live in the middle east and there are not support groups here really, I have found you tube invaluable and watched and subscribed to the storeys of many posters, some that post on this site as well.
As for you saying that you will not be skinny, think again, you will be. With the sleeve they remove many of the cells that excrete ghrelin that is the hormone that causes hunger, this is situated in the greater curve of the stomach and is gone when it is cut out to form your sleeve. There is however a large part that you play by complying to the diet but it is exceedingly easier with the sleeve as a tool. Watch you tube and keep posting on this site, both your and my following and responses will increase with time as we become known on the site. Newbies join all the time and each person does not always identify with everyone. I am sure we will all meet our journey buddies with time, just keep posting and replying. you will mean the world to someone who feels as alone as you do and then relizes that in fact many of us feel that way.
Good luck
 
Welcome xx

Please don't take it personally if you puts and it seems to get 'missed'. Sometimes it can simply be that for whatever reason very few people are visiting the forum when you post and when they do get on may only have time to check a couple of their favourite threads and before you know it your original post has sunk down into the 'old' posts.

As others have said, keep posting and you'll soon get to know others in here and they'll get to know you xx
 
I also understand the ignored feeling but I think you have to just keep wading in , I give my opinions and advice and in turn ask advice when I need it and jusy hope it a/helps someone and b/I get an answer when I need help. keep at it im not a sleever so cant help on that score but on an emotional level I think we all understand
 
hi and welcome, im a newbie sleever 3 weeks + post op now if you have any questons feel free to ask them
 
Hiya, I'm a sleever too :) 5 weeks post op. If you have any questions I'm here :) x
 
Hello, you poor thing...it sounds like u have been through so much. I personally think you are amazing to have coped with all your probs and 2 children. I salute you! I'm a bander but have partial pcos (symptoms but not illness...or something like that) my weight is stopping me from getting pregnant, so no matter how down you feel look at your beautiful babies and realise its not all doom and gloom.....good luck with your journey :)
 
Hello and welcome to the site. There is such a wealth of information to be found here, and a huge amount of understanding and support.
 
Hi and welcome EYV sorry I missed your earlier post as lincsLass said sometimes posts can get lost in amongst other newer posts. I wish you the best of luck in getting the sleeve and your journey x
 
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