Feeling sorry for myself on day 2

[BEXS99]

God i feel so weak willed, i am on day 2 and finding it really hard going, got banging head ache and am so tired, have to do it though !!!:cry:

 

[Heah]

Think about the end goal Becky and all the hard work you have put into getting this far.. you can do it, just take it easy xx

 

[yummymummytobe]

when i started the pre-op diet i felt like poo tired, miserable & felt like my throat had been cut as was so hungry but keeping my liquid levels up really helped x

 

[kelley77]

Day 2 & 3 are defo the hardest. It gets a lot easier, I promise! It will all be worth it xxx

 

[shannon_hilder]

stick with it, think of the end goal and also think that you wont get the much needed op if you dont stick to it.... pull your socks up and have a good attitude, you are about to start a new chapter of your life, good luck xxxxx

 

[Caren]

awww bexs i really feel for you must be awful, but ill swap with ya lol
hope you feel better soon honey xxx

 

[Peterborough Guy]

The good news is the end is in sight, the bad news is you will still be on liquids afterwards for a few weeks hehe

Come on Bex, you can do it, you know we are all behind you.

Gx

 

[mandym1]

You can do this Becky, its tough but so worth it to get what you have fought so hard for. Take one day at a time but keep your focus on the end result. The first few days are hard but it does get easier and the headaches will go. Good Luck hun xxx

 

[BEXS99]

Thanks guys am crying here reading all your comments, your all truely fab, I will do it just feels so hard today xx

 

[luckyla]

The rewards will be so great! This is the part where you have to prove your strength and resolve. You can do it! Xx

 

[Big an Bouncy]

Becky the head will clear about day 3/4,fill up on milky drinks.Heat skimmed milk and whisk it with a stick blender or hand whisk.Make a cappuchino and enjoy!Go for a walk in the fresh air,look at clothes sites for future reference.Clear wardrobes and drawers of all the tat you will never wear again.Have you packed your hospital bag?Do the garden you wont be up to it for a while.Write your Xmas lists,buy some xmas cards and write them out ready.Cook stuff and freeze in small portions.Soon be over and before you know it you will be 6 months post bypass!Maz x

 

[happy days]

Becky you've come so far and this is the final hurdle. Just keep counting down those days. Long bubble baths and early nights worked for me xxxxx

 

[Danielle1979]

Hi Bex
I'm coming to the end of my 3rd day on the pre op milk diet and completely get where your coming from. I'm weak and have a head ache to and i've also had to get through today with 3 hours sleep last night as i have given my bed up for my mum who's staying till sunday. I'm also having to cook really yummy things for everyone else while i sit in the front room an have an oxo drink (i cooked home made macaroni cheese with tomato and bacon for my little boy, partner, mum and step dad) as i can't have any food at all.
All i can say is that it does get easier, and there are loads of people on here who are so supportive.
Hope you feel better soon

xxx

 

[BEXS99]

Thanks guys, think its just a bad day as sat here in tears tonight thinking of what if!!! am i doing the right thing, just some people today i have spoke to eg friends, work colleagues have been bit negative - are you sure your doing right thing, its life threatening that kind of thing, so don't think that has helped me..... am okay now after speaking to some good friends, especially Peachie (Zoe) on here as she is having her op on Monday and I've been messaging her and she has been so supportive, Met some lovely people on here and thank you so much for your support xx

 

[xxsarahxx]

It gets easier Bex and don't worry about having a little cry, i shed bucket loads. I felt i was mourning the death of someone. I was very heavy to start with, 32 stone to be precise and like you and many others i worried about the risks etc...but i thought to myself "they know what they are doing". You'll be safe and even better, super fit and healthy in a few months time x

 

[BEXS99]

Thanks sarah, your doing great bet you look fab xxxxx

 

[happy days]

Bex
I was fine till the day before and I cried like a baby everytime someone spoke to me. The surgical team put everything in prospective to me when he said there is no way we would put you under anesthetic if we didn't think you wud get threw it. They specialise in overweight people don't let people but doubts in your head they don't know anything about the facts. You deserve this chance x

 

[BEXS99]

Thanks hun, wish you all could come with me lol xx

 

[Josiegirl]

Becky darling we WILL be with you in spirit anyway thinking about you and wishing you well. I know exactly how you are feeling as I am going through the same emotions as you are. I have less than two weeks to go and really am getting the jitters. Feel a load better after reading the post by Happy Days though. It really does make perfect sense.

Chin up (in my case it is chins) and try and look beyond the operation to the fantastic new you that is going to be revealed

 

[BEXS99]

Chin chin hun same here, thanks xxxxx