Hi there,
Welcome! I am sure you'll find this forum a great help to you over the long road ahead! Everyone is lovely and there is loads of helpful advice to be found.
A good place to start is the BOSPA site - (google it, or I am sure there is probably a link on here somewhere).
What happens next really depends on where you live and what your PCT surgery funding criteria is.
You will need to see the obesity consultant, the dietician, have the sleep apnea study...I had to see an exercise specialist...you may also need to see a psychologist...and you may need to see all this lot any number of times! Some people need to attend a weight management clinic for 6 months, a year or more as well as everything else. Once you have convinced your obesity consultant that you understand all that is involved, they will apply to your PCT for funding for the op....if it gets agreed you then get referred to the hospital who performs the surgery...and you go through the whole thing again!
It's frustrating and as you can imagine, can take quite a long time, although some areas do seem to move more quickly than others.
I think this process is designed to make sure people go into it with a clear itea of the risks, and how to make it work to the best advantage for you.
Anyway, keep us informed on how you get on xxx