Hi there,
I have been reading everything I could on this forum and just thought I would say HI. It is so helpul and informative and it is nice to hear people having the same struggle as I have. In my life i am surrounded by skinny people and i wish i could hate them all but i can't they are nice people so instead i hate myself! much more fun and self destructive! I am THE classic story, lots of weight to loose, lots of diets helping loose weight then put it back on, over and over again! IF you ask me when did i start dieting, i always says since i was born! My parents are really thin and they aren't happy with me and my weight and i always feel like i am a dissapoitment to them :cry:I remember all my life still to this day my mum saying, Oh if only you were 5 kgs lighter you would be perfect, then 10kgs then 20 and the other day she mentionned 40kgs that's when i hit the roof!
(although she is not far off the mark!) So i need to do something drastic to change my life and I hope the gastric band will help me with this. I am in talk with Healthier weight at the moment and I like the fact they are specialised in WLS instead of just cosmetic but does anyone been to their birmingham center? Also could you get away with not mentionning to anyone that you are having surgery? i.e if you avoid having food with people could they know! are you ill all the time striaght after the surgery or is it just when you eat? Anyway this is me and Ihope i will have a successful journey with you guys by my side
Keep up the good work xxx
I have been reading everything I could on this forum and just thought I would say HI. It is so helpul and informative and it is nice to hear people having the same struggle as I have. In my life i am surrounded by skinny people and i wish i could hate them all but i can't they are nice people so instead i hate myself! much more fun and self destructive! I am THE classic story, lots of weight to loose, lots of diets helping loose weight then put it back on, over and over again! IF you ask me when did i start dieting, i always says since i was born! My parents are really thin and they aren't happy with me and my weight and i always feel like i am a dissapoitment to them :cry:I remember all my life still to this day my mum saying, Oh if only you were 5 kgs lighter you would be perfect, then 10kgs then 20 and the other day she mentionned 40kgs that's when i hit the roof!
(although she is not far off the mark!) So i need to do something drastic to change my life and I hope the gastric band will help me with this. I am in talk with Healthier weight at the moment and I like the fact they are specialised in WLS instead of just cosmetic but does anyone been to their birmingham center? Also could you get away with not mentionning to anyone that you are having surgery? i.e if you avoid having food with people could they know! are you ill all the time striaght after the surgery or is it just when you eat? Anyway this is me and Ihope i will have a successful journey with you guys by my side Keep up the good work xxx
