Hi Sappo, I have just been for my first consultation today. You are right in what you say about trusting your gut instinct. My surgeon is going to be Mr Small in Washington Spire and he was a lovely man. Never rushed me, answered all my questions and I felt comfortable and able to trust him and that is so important. Like you I am going privately and having to fund the surgery but dont feel gulity about it. You deserve it and just think if you are anything like me how much money you have wasted over the years on slimming pills, patches, slimming clubs, cambridge diets and all the fancy foods that goes with them only at the end of it to either not lose much weight or not be able to keep it off. This is an investment in your life and what could be more important. Why is it people dont seem to think twice about buying a new car for £12K or more yet we feel guilty about paying for surgery that will totally change our lives, improve our health and lengthen out lives. As long as you are doing the right thing for you nothing else matters!!
Lorna