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I just need to vent my spleen/sleeve

mr97

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My mood has been fluctuating lately and I seem to be bouncing between feeling euphoric one minute and then irritable the next.

I'd just like to say that I'm so grateful to have had wls, but I'm feeling very underwhelmed by the level of support both pre and post surgery. If it wasn't for the help and info I receive from here and from other pre&post oppers that happened to be from hospitals in my region that offer good communication , I think I'd be in a right mess.

My diabetes was ignored completely by my team and during my liver diet I became unwell twice. The Diabetic specialist who came to see was furious that despite my seeing diabetic nurses at my GP clinic, I'd only been advised to deduct 20mg of gliclizide from my meds. The specialist while I was in hospital, reviewed my case and apologised for the care I'd received, especially as it turns out that my blood test taken in Oct 2012 had shown that my diabetes was in remission. I'd phoned the surgery to ask for my results back then and they just informed me that my blood tests were fine. So having lost 9st since Aug 2012 and, my diabetes (type 2) going into remission, I was still prescribed the meds for a 32st, inactive guy with poor control over my diabetes. No wonder I was so ill and God only knows what would of happened if I'd had a full on hypo as I live alone.

Mr Peter, the specialist I met with was very helpful and insisted that I become proactive with my care and not let health care professionals get away with lazy care giving. He told me what to expect from them and what to ask for so that I can better understand what is happening and not to accept 'your bloods are fine' from anyone. The main points I need familiarise myself with and ask about are HbA1c count, my BP and Cholesterol.

I'm now starting to understand why information has not been forth coming, as it is much easier to deal with uninformed people. Since my surgery last week, I have been given advice from various care teams that conflicts: listened to one health care professional, talk negatively about another in the same team - letting me know that there's disharmony amongst the team and, been given info that could not be explained:mad:.

When I was very overweight and depressed I became used to being thought of as stupid and not worthy of people's time. Now that I've lost some weight and gained a little confidence, I'm feeling more able to speak-up for myself. I don't know about anyone else but until I am told why I have to do something by a nurse of Dr, all I can do is just assume that there’s a good reason for it and, at the very least, that they know why themselves.

....Rant over!:eek:
 
I have had similar, put the wind up me when I had checks the hospital called me and told me that one of my blood results was abnormal and I needed to make an urgent appointment with GP, which I did, she had no idea what was wrong with my blood, after printing it off and going through it, so she called the hospital and they said they were worried that my blood sugar was so low and that I should stop diabetes medication!!! Thank goodness I was diet controlled my GP was furious because had I been insulin dependent it could have been a very different story.

I now question every single result.

I hope you get everything sorted.
 
Good for you lyzzyanne and yes, everything's sorted now. Thank you.
 
Thanks guys
 
Sorry to hear you've not been getting the support you need :/ Sounds like the specialist has given you the tools you need to ensure you don't get short-changed in future (along with your new found confidence). If not, you can add more rants here! Take care x :)
 
Mr 97 question for you (off subject)
you had problems with you cpap didnt you, how long did you wear it on average at night & for how long did you have to use before surgery?
im also under salford royal & have been messed around by the sleep clinic ( machine wouldnt reqister card)
any info on how your eperience at salford would be appreciated
thanks
 
[FONT=&quot]Hi Mr Doo, I didn't really have problems with my CPAP machine as such, I just found it very difficult to adjust to sleeping with it - not being a 'nose breather' I had to use the full face mask which I found a little claustrophobic. I have since got used to it.
If Salford Royal's Sleep Clinic, has the same criteria as the clinic I attend in Darlington, then they will want you to be averaging at least 4hrs a night using your CPAP. My results averaged 4.3 hrs a night and they were happy with that and gave me the all clear for surgery.
[/FONT][FONT=&quot]I think that the card you mentioned is where all the data is stored so that when they plug your cpap in to a computer, they can see how you are managing with the cpap. All I could suggest really, is that you contact them as soon as possible to arrange for your cpap to be tested or they issue you a new machine. If they do issue a new machine, it would hurt to ask them to test it first.
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[FONT=&quot]It may seem like you have a lot of hoops to jump through until you are given a date for surgery, but keep plugging away and it will be here before you know it.


Good luck.[/FONT]
 
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