My ramblings !

[Kevin1708]

Is it a bloke thing I wonder . . . I am more concerned about the proposed ‘life style changes’ than the operation itself – the thought of not being able to go to the pub and guzzle a gallon of fine real ale before a kebab or alike is frightening – maybe that’s because the food and drink are comfort foods (a crutch if you like) – I am convinced that when you gain weight you seek solace in food and so begins the vicious circle.

What is strange is that my weight gain kind of sneaked up on me . . . . one day I found myself buying 40inch waist trousers instead of 36inch – I did not heed the warning signs and continued to enjoy life then the awful day comes when you are in M & S and nothing will fit ! ! !

I am one of the lucky ones; I asked my GP about the options early December 2010 and will be having my operation early April 2011. At 6’0’’ and 325lb I certainly need to lose around 150lb – my weight seems to be around the centre which I understand to most common in men. Being overweight is not attractive, healthy or in any way a good thing yet I am reluctant to change my life style – why is that? Maybe I am scared that I won’t be able to cope with the changes after all it is easier to eat sh*t than to prepare healthy food ~ even WW foods seems to be filled with sugars, e-numbers and preservatives (and something similar to wallpaper paste) - the WW Chicken Hotpot tastes great but just one per serving . . . come on ! Hell, when you read the label it frightens you to death.

There are some truly wonderful stories on here – so positive (and this is a theme irrespective of stage) – the before and after pics are staggering it makes me feel proud of people I have never even met . . .

Is there anything as awful as being overweight and going in to a restaurant and people have to move chairs to let you passed ????? Yet I sit down and order the biggest steak in the house! I have never heard any nasty comments about me – lol, due to my size and having played rugby for many years I am just a big bloke and bullies don’t tend to pick on me but I have heard stories about people on here where there has been abuse and it makes me see red.

I am not really sure what my little rant has been about only that it is great to be able to talk/write with others in the same boat x

PS if anyone is on or has experience the milk diet, I would love to hear your thoughts.

 

[emma-louise]

Hi Kevin,
I didn't do the milk diet I was given the low cal/fat one.
You made me laugh about the chairs in the restaurant.
I hated the fact I couldn't move round in shops etc invade I knocked anything off the shelves with my big behind!
When u have this op you won't let food rule your life.
As there's so many other new things to experience and enjoy!
Good luck x

 

[phatmomma]

Kevin you are not alone, i feared not being able to eat anything, of losing my love of food. It's being my longest lasting romance yet

Bad news is you won't be drinking gallons of fine ale anymore, you won't be ordering the biggest steak in the pub either.... And believe it or not, 1 w/w chicken hotpot will be too much for you to eat

Good news? Buying clothes in regular shops, better sex, more confidence and one thing i never expected but you being an ex rugby player will probably appreciate; exercise is good I actually enjoy the walking, the zumba class, any opportunity to take the stairs... Oh yes and i still love food, in fact i may actually love it more than ever... My tastes have changed, the chip shop makes me heave (although i can eat a pie no worries), i am no longer a chocaholic and i no longer look for the biggest pathway through a restaurant....

And that's me only half way through my weight loss journey

Be brave my friend, and if you want to ask any questions feel free x

 

[BIG KIM]

Hi Kev, I was in the same boat 18 months ago mate. but trust me, losing the weight, feeling fit and healthy, and being able to buy normal sized clothes gives you far more satisfaction and comfort than any Pint or kebab ever could.
I am about 14 months post op now, and I am comfortable with my eating. I can eat quite allot now, and snack aver hour or so (Little and often) but it's all healthy stuff that I eat. it doesn't bother my not eating Pizza/Burgers or Kebabs. yeah they taste nice, but look at the harm they can do.
You will soon see mate that the benefits soon out weigh the sacrifices.

 

[IRJ]

Ditto i could drink 10/15 pints a night easily then take away after but i wouldnt swap back now WLS was the best thing i ever did trust me swapping alcohol and take aways for my new life has saved mine.

Hi Kev, I was in the same boat 18 months ago mate. but trust me, losing the weight, feeling fit and healthy, and being able to buy normal sized clothes gives you far more satisfaction and comfort than any Pint or kebab ever could.
I am about 14 months post op now, and I am comfortable with my eating. I can eat quite allot now, and snack aver hour or so (Little and often) but it's all healthy stuff that I eat. it doesn't bother my not eating Pizza/Burgers or Kebabs. yeah they taste nice, but look at the harm they can do.
You will soon see mate that the benefits soon out weigh the sacrifices.

 

[dottychic]

Great positive replies there Kevin You will be amazed at the ways the op will change your life! In ways you wouldnt even think about....how about bending over to pick something up off the floor? No probs! Its great and Im only early out and I feel like Ive been given a new start and I fully intend to embrace it Good luck matey, oh and the milk diet! It sucks big time lol....but its got to be done and it does get easier after the first few days......honest! XX