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puddytats

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Hi

I'm Ellie and I'm obviously new here ;).

I'm due the bypass in the new year. I'm participating in the By-Band-Sleeve study and I agreed to be allocated a surgery rather than choose. To be honest, each appears to have it's pros and cons and in a way it's been quite nice to not have to make that decision. On the other hand, I like to be in control, and it's been odd not to be in control of this. I had my pre-op assessment last week and now I'm waiting for the dietician appointment to come through. The research nurse said it is unlikely to be January for surgery, but probably February, unless the NHS experiences some unforeseen crisis over the Winter period which would delay things further.

I've been reading around the boards and especially at the pre-op diet; I hope to goodness the dietician doesn't insist on the milk one I've read about. I'm lactose intolerant and milk etc goes straight through me and it affects my mood. I'm already anxious about the effect of the GA on my body as the allergy specialist believes that the 2 GA's I had in one year as a child interfered with my system, leading to food intolerances (not just lactose, but gluten and soya as well, amongst other things and developing intolerances to chemicals - another anxious moment for me there). Still, on the other hand, the GA could kill or cure all intolerances and chemical sensitivities. It would be so nice not to have to stop people from spraying chemicals such as cleaning fluids and perfume in the office to reduce the risk of me being ill! The allergy specialist supports the surgery especially for intolerances as well so all is well :)

I'm pleased to finally be at this point. I keep reading about the tiers, and to be honest, I don't know that much about them. Perhaps I've been on them - this particular journey started 4 years ago with my first referral to the community dietician. I've since seen some guy in outpatients for 3 years, but this is mainly because I've been studying for my degree and I need to be in the right head space for surgery, and mid-degree isn't it! I have turned down a job for surgery, as the job was a maternity cover but would also involve moving counties (long story), and my support system is right where I live. Huge decisions - almost bigger than the question "Do I go back to uni at 30 and complete a degree?" (I graduate on Friday, I'm so excited :D). And both the news of surgery and the job offer came on the same day. I was exhausted thinking about them!

That's probably enough for a first post. I look forward to continuing to read and share your own journies.

Ellie
 
Big Welcome Ellie, I am a newbie too, I will look forward to your updates and progress and I hope this site becomes useful to you as it is becoming to me

Becky x
 
Welcome to the forum newbie, Good luck with your journey
 
Welcome Ellie
 
hello and very warm welcome to you !
there are lovely people on here all willing to offer advise ,support and the odd kick up the bum when needed....or not!
I look forward to reading your next post
 
Hi Ellie big welcome to the forum I'm also expecting to have my surgery in Feb 2016 it's exciting but kinda scary too X
 
Hi Ellie! Welcome to the mad house! Don't be afraid to ask anything - no matter how daft it may seem. I had a sleeve in October and feel on top of the world! Looking forward to seeing you on the losers' bench soon. :) x
 
Thanks everyone for the welcome.

The computer selected bypass, jen1805! I've likened it to rolling a die!

I have a dietician appointment in January so that should be the next step.

I'm still quite anxious - the GA is the worst bit I think, plus the massive changes that this will mean. I'm excited a bit too, but at the moment, with Christmas looming, and graduation ceremony tomorrow, I've so much to do, it's ridiculous. Not even put the Christmas decs up yet and my family are coming to me for Christmas!

Still, all I need to do in the bathroom now is the stencilling, glossing and varnishing the drawers.

Busy busy!
 
Hi Ellie,

I am a returned newbie lol... welcome. Look forward to hearing about your journey.
What is the study that you are participating in?
 
Hi blossom

The study is the by-band-sleeve study which allocate people to surgery in the view to look at the long term advantages and disadvantages of each surgery. The theory behind it is that although these 3 surgeries are routinely offered, there is limited information regarding if one is better than the other and why. They have funding to follow up for 3 years...it is usual in the city I live in to have follow up for 2 years. If there is more funding available then they want to extend the study. It's being run through the university of Bristol.

Ellie
 
Welcome Ellie and congrats on getting a shot at surgery.

Don't worry about the pre-op diet, they're not going to put you on the milk diet if you're lactose intolerant. Just tell them what your food issues are and I'm sure that your team will work their way round it :)
 
Thanks. Am sure they will.

Was thinking about holidays today...was going to aim for September if I can; should that be enough time if I have surgery in Feb (or should I start another thread!) I love to travel!
 
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