pollybree
New Member
I am being sleeved in 3 weeks and my partner is being really difficult with me. He is bringing all sorts of stuff up from the past to argue about which bears no relevance to our relationship now. My mam says its because he is feeling threatend by my future skinnny self and the fact that I may move on from him so he is doing this for constant reassurance from me. I Really love him we have had 11 years together 5 of them skinny and 6 fat. I think my being overweight has made him feel safe in the knowledge that I would or could not leave him. This is absurd to be because all i want is him although he is beginning to push me away with his insecurities. I am really trying to be nice when he has a wobble but I am finding it increasingly hard, any advice please????:wave_cry: