Type of WLS: RNY Bypass
Private or NHS: Private
Start weight: 27.1 (I think)
Goal weight: I don't really have one... a BMI <25 would be nice but I won't cry if I don't lose 100% EWL
Item of clothing you are/were most excited to wear: I have cracked out the wool skirt which was a big deal. I still want a wool dress I can wear, it's so hard finding one that hides the knees! Oh also calf boots. Why haven't my calves shrunk?!
Everyday task you can't/couldn't do before WLS: I think I could do everything, I just was scared to/didn't want to in case I was embarrassed. I was always scared of car seat belts. I still kinda am.
Best compliment you have had after WLS: I HATE the compliments. I don't want anyone saying anything about the weight loss - either they mean I was hideous before or I'm only somehow worthy of attention now. I'm really not interested in people who think more of me now. I refuse to thank people for saying "You've lost weight!" because what am I thanking them for? Having eyes? I can't wait to move away and start again (when I'm 'finished') with strangers who don't know I lost loads of weight
Best part of WLS: Well I'm still only almost 5 months out so perhaps I'm not qualified but so far..... the CLOTHES the HEELS the fact that there's some point in putting some effort into my appearance now. I know it sounds shallow but I've always been told I'm a great person to shop with because I can put great outfits together, I just have never dressed myself like that because of my size. Now I'm getting there, I want to be a fashionista one day!
Also feeling I can be part of things more now. I even imagined myself going to a club the other day. Not that it would happen, I'm just saying
if my friends were going I would probably go too now!
Worst part of WLS: family meals, skin, hair loss (although it has got worse, the issue started due to PCOS. I'm now 3 TOTM in a row so fingers crossed that's being reversed!)
Advice to new people: Do it! I personally haven't had any of the emotional issues or owt but I wasn't an emotional eater anyway. I just wanted volume. Now I find eating a bit of a chore to be honest and it's so nice that that thing I have been fixated on all of my life is no longer of any consequence to me.