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sarahss15

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I am having a band to bypass op in Sept. I am terrified. I have had no support atall. I am having to pay to have this op privately. I was turned down twice on NHS. I am a hypertensive diabetic. I would just love to speak to someone who has had this done and tell me what it is really like post op. I read the internet all the time and view the good , bad and the ugly reports and frighten myself to death. I know I must have this done. I just need some support. Thank you
 
Hi Sarah, its natural to have fears and worries, I had a bypass a month ago and can honestly say it has been a breeze for me. I had no pain after the op ( except for trapped wind-but that went after 2 days). I have had no dumping or feeling sick etc. and I am losing weight steadily. I hope all goes well for you and although its easier said than done, try not to worry too much x
 
aw love dont be scared, theres loads of us with ops coming up,all in the same boat , and lots of lovely people who have had theirs , everyone will help you get through it , be strong and remember its to make your life better . x good luck x
 
As said above it normal to be scared. I was terrified of the anasthetic ,but I was back on the ward before I knew it. I have some discomfort where the 'work' has been done on the inside but nothing to be scared about. Hope all goes well for you.
 
I had my bypass 5 weeks ago, was only off work 3 weeks and I'm feeling great. Yes I did have pain after the op and was tender for a week or 2. Tiredness was bad but its a major operation so all to be expected. I dont regret my bypass at all and am very grateful for it. 35lb down and lots to go but now I know I will get there x
 
I found it useful to read the diaries as you get a real feel for those early days and see how far people come and the new life weight loss brings to them. You will be fine and nerves are to be expected, I was a wreck we wouldnt be normal if we were not nervous. Good Luck xx
 
Hi again. Is anyone diabetic? I am having 6 injections a day as I was put on the new byetta. What worries me is after surgery, what happens with the insulin as obviously you cannot eat. No one has explained to me what happens. I am hoping I will be told at pre-op test. This op is costing 9k. At the moment I am concerned as I had a band done privately and had so many probs with it and was just left to get on with it. They just took my money. No one has mentioned a dietician etc.mmmmmm
I lost my mum to diabetes this is why I must get this op done. I also lost my little boy when he was 14 with cancer. Food is my crutch especially chocolate. How do you all cope?
 
sarahss15 said:
Hi again. Is anyone diabetic? I am having 6 injections a day as I was put on the new byetta.
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Hi Hun,
It sounds to me that you are not getting the support and advice that you need before any sugary let along RNY gastric bypass. You say you are paying for this procedure out of your own pocket if this is the case I feel you need to shop around a little and find a hospital that will give you the support you need.

I am diabetic and hypertensive not currently on insulin but taking lots of other medication I have been given lots of support and constructive guidelines from my medical team about the medication I am on, including how to deal with my diabetes post surgery.

I am under Spire Manchester and they do provide all their patients with fantastic pre and post op support, members on this forum will struggle to give you any specific instructions regarding your medication as only your medical team should be doing this, if they ate not giving you this support you need to ask them why not or even change your service provider.

Please take care and try not to worry too much help is out there, please let us know how you get on.

BigDave
 
I had my bypass on 14th April. I had a few ups and downs. But hands on heart would do it again in an instance without a shadow of a doubt. The benefits you will achieve completely out weigh any hiccups! Keep positive!!
 
Good luck with your op, i'm sure everything will be fine and if it's advice and support you need, this is a good place.
 
Good luck! I'm sure there are some horror stories out there but it seems that they are a very very small minority. it's only natural to be scared of the unknown, believe me, I've had your worries too, but no pain no gain! (that saying doesn't really go hand in hand with weight loss surgery dies it!). I'm sure you all know what I'm getting at tho. :). take care. xxx
 
diabetic too

i was on insulin 4-5 times a day before the milk diet started now i'm only injecting before bed (my long acting bolus which i've managed to get from 220 units down to 60) mind you it took me a few days to even out things first ................. it'll be worth it in the end so don't worry ;)
 
Hi Sarah , :welcome2:

Welcome to wls i know you will find the help and support you want.
I am a scared to have my operation ,which i am having on this wednesday but i know it is the right thing to do .
I also am diabetic and hypertensive not currently on insulin but taking lots of other medication.

I hope i will be a lot more healthier in the years to come.
I wish you all the luck and keep in touch.

Love Marie. oxoxox :p
 
Hi Sarah, I am in exactly the same situation as yourself. I have a gastric band and am going to have this removed and a bypass done instead. I just started the pre-op diet this morning and my op is scheduled for 12th September. I am self pay also.

I am an insulin dependent diabetic injecting six times a day and have angina and arterial sclarosis and arthritis - all of which, I am assured, will be improved with the bypass.

The difference between my story and yours is that I have the full support of a large team of specialists who have been absolutely wonderful. So far I have seen the surgeon, specialist nurse, ward doctor, dietician and spoken to the physiotherapist. Had loads of tests done and been advised on all aspects of my surgery, after care, diet and diabetes management.

Everyone is different so you must get advice tailored to your own situation but so far I have been told to cut down on my insulin on the pre-op diet and that after the surgery it will be best for me to stop all insulin but continue to test and dose accordingly and that, with luck I may never need further insulin. If I do it will be a vastly reduced dose.

Yesterday at my meeting at the hospital with the dietician the anaesthatist (sp?) left me a letter outlining which of my medications to continue taking up to surgery and which to stop eg not take my daily aspirin for one week prior to surgery and no metformin from the day prior to surgery etc.

If you are not getting this kind of advise and support I would agree with other people here that you should really look around for a provider who will give you this support that is invaluable. I am under the care of Spire Yale Hospital in Wrexham.

Whatever happens, remember that you are not alone. If it is any help we can be bypass buddies together {{{{{hugs}}}}}
 
Josiegirl said:
Hi Sarah, I am in exactly the same situation as yourself. I have a gastric band and am going to have this removed and a bypass done instead. I just started the pre-op diet this morning and my op is scheduled for 12th September. I am self pay also.

I am an insulin dependent diabetic injecting six times a day and have angina and arterial sclarosis and arthritis - all of which, I am assured, will be improved with the bypass.

The difference between my story and yours is that I have the full support of a large team of specialists who have been absolutely wonderful. So far I have seen the surgeon, specialist nurse, ward doctor, dietician and spoken to the physiotherapist. Had loads of tests done and been advised on all aspects of my surgery, after care, diet and diabetes management.

Everyone is different so you must get advice tailored to your own situation but so far I have been told to cut down on my insulin on the pre-op diet and that after the surgery it will be best for me to stop all insulin but continue to test and dose accordingly and that, with luck I may never need further insulin. If I do it will be a vastly reduced dose.

Yesterday at my meeting at the hospital with the dietician the anaesthatist (sp?) left me a letter outlining which of my medications to continue taking up to surgery and which to stop eg not take my daily aspirin for one week prior to surgery and no metformin from the day prior to surgery etc.

If you are not getting this kind of advise and support I would agree with other people here that you should really look around for a provider who will give you this support that is invaluable. I am under the care of Spire Yale Hospital in Wrexham.

Whatever happens, remember that you are not alone. If it is any help we can be bypass buddies together {{{{{hugs}}}}}
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by the sounds of it you're a type2 diabetic on insulin like me ................the only insulin i'm taking pre op is my night time slow acting one which i've had to drop back by 150 units ;)
 
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