poor you. I was really well and managing my mental health symptoms very well so they didn't ask me to see any mental health professionals after the op. I had expected it as I can go off pretty quickly and hospitals are a big trigger for me.
I would go and see your GP, they may be able to help (sort of depends how good they are). Also how about recontacting your surgeon and finding out why you need to see the psych, perhaps you could see them privately and quickly.
What I can say is its worth the battle, keeping going and battling for the surgery big hugs and hope you feel a little better today.
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