I'm so touched by the kindness and support of everyone on this forum.
Unlike a lot of people I've never suffered any abuse because of my size, but I have over recent years surrounded myself with only close friends and family.
But to receive understanding like I have here is so great, so big thanks to everyone who has left me messages of support, and hopefully one day in the not so distant future I'll be taking my turn at reassuring a new pre opper that it's the best thing they've ever decided to do etc etc :thankyou: