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still not even numbered!! :-(

nichola24

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hey everyone xxx not long joined this site and have found it very interesting reading about peoples experiences.

im waiting for a gastric bypass at derby with dr ahmed, been put on the list since 14th dec 10.

from what ive read a lot of people call to find out their status on the list and i was a bit wary of doin this as it said not to :-(

however i decided to give helen ( my surgeons secretary a call) finally after many attempts i got thru to her! only for her to say tht yes im on the waiting list and no she cnt give me ne idea on when my op will be, and that i dont even have a number in the list!!!! and theres loads of people in front of me :-(

when i called in january they said june to august to me so how can i not even be numbered?? :-( does ne one how many they go up to before they decide not to assign numbers to people?? and how many ops they do a month?

this is really gettin me down, been waiting 18 months all together now since i decided to go for the op and i wish id have gone private, id have my new life by now...one slight prob....no money :-(

if ne one can help id be very greatfull thanks xxx

nichola24
 
Hi Nichola and Welcome hun x

Sorry I can`t give you any answers to your question.....but I`m sure someone from your area will be along in due cause!

I know its really dissapointing waiting for surgery, a large number of people on here have been waiting several months if not years. Probably not what you wanted to hear!

I guess its very much a waiting game. Learn and find out as much as you can beforehand about the procedure.....settle down and make lots of friends on here...they all know what your going through babe x


Hopefully it wont be too long a wait!




Chin up and take care hun x








Love Kat x
 
thanks katkit1 xxx

my mind is very much in the mind set that if i got offered it tommorow i wud take it! my problem is im impatient lol

just wish i had at least a figure to count down from :-(

how are you doin post op? has it been difficult adjusting to the small portions?

my uncle had a bypass about 18 months ago, hes lost loads of weight but theres lots of food he still cant eat like chicken and fish, chicken is my staple meat lol!
 
Guide to waiting times

See : http://www.nhs.uk/choiceintheNHS/Rightsandpledges/Waitingtimes/Pages/Guide%20to%20waiting%20times.aspx

The NHS is making sure that you are seen as soon as possible, at a time that is convenient for you. To do this, the NHS Constitution gives you the right to access services within maximum waiting times, or for the NHS to take all reasonable steps to offer you a range of suitable alternative providers if this is not possible.

This right is a legal entitlement protected by law, and applies to the NHS in England. The maximum waiting times are described in the Handbook to the NHS Constitution (PDF, 1.17 mb).

The NHS Operating Framework for 2011/12 (PDF, 744kb) makes it clear that patients’ rights to access services withing maximum waiting times under the NHS Constitution will continue.

What this means for patients

  • You have the right to start your consultant-led treatment within a maximum of 18 weeks from referral.
  • You have the right to be seen by a specialist within a maximum of two weeks from GP referral for urgent referrals where cancer is suspected.
If this is not possible, the primary care trust (PCT) or strategic health authority (SHA) that commissions your treatment must investigate, offering you a range of suitable alternative providers that would be able to see or treat you more quickly than the original provider.
You will need to contact the provider you have been referred to, or your local PCT before alternatives can be investigated for you. Your PCT or SHA must take all reasonable steps to meet your request.

From referral to start of treatment

Your right to start treatment within 18 weeks from referral includes treatments where a consultant retains overall clinical responsibility for the service or team, or for your treatment. This means the consultant will not necessarily be present for each appointment, but will take overall responsibility for your care. The setting of your consultant-led treatment, for example whether hospital-based or in a community-based clinic, will not affect your right to treatment within 18 weeks.

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When does the clock start?

If a GP, dentist, optician or other clinician refers you for hospital treatment, the clock starts when you book your first appointment, or when your referral letter is received by the hospital.
Booking your hospital appointment through Choose and Book means your appointment can be booked while you’re still in the GP’s surgery, or later at a more convenient time if you would prefer to talk to your family or colleagues before making an appointment. You can book an appointment online or or by calling The Appointments Line 0345 6088888 .

The clock is ticking



You will see a clinician at your chosen hospital or clinic. You may need the following:
  • Tests, scans or other procedures to help ensure that your treatment is tailored appropriately to your condition.
  • Medication or therapy to manage your symptoms until you start treatment.
  • A referral to another consultant or department.
When does the clock stop?



The clock stops if no hospital treatment is necessary or when your treatment begins. This could include:
  • Being admitted to hospital for an operation or treatment.
  • Starting treatment, such as taking medication, that doesn’t require you to stay in hospital.
  • Beginning your fitting of a medical device, such as leg braces.
  • Agreeing to your condition being monitored for a time to see whether you need further treatment.
  • Receiving advice from hospital staff to manage your condition.
If you want to delay your hospital admission, for example because of a planned holiday, the NHS may temporarily pause the clock.

Exceptions



The right will cease to apply where:
  • You choose to wait longer.
  • Delaying the start of your treatment is in your best clinical interests, for example where stopping smoking or losing weight is likely to improve the outcome of the treatment.
  • It is clinically appropriate for your condition to be actively monitored in secondary care without clinical intervention or diagnostic procedures at that stage.
  • You fail to attend appointments that you had chosen from a set of reasonable options, or
  • The treatment is no longer necessary.
The following services are not covered by the right:
  • Non-medical consultant-led mental health services, and
  • Maternity services.
Choosing hospitals



Waiting times may vary between hospitals. You may decide you prefer a particular hospital. Your decision may depend on your GP or other referrer's recommendation, the urgency to start treatment, or whether a particular hospital specialises in a particular treatment. If you want to be seen sooner, take the following steps:
  • Exercise your right to choose which hospital you are referred to by comparing hospitals across England on this website. You can also compare hospitals by the treatments that they offer. If you want to know how long the waiting time is on average in your area for a hip replacement, for example, select the operation from the A-Z list, then select Compare hospitals.
  • Choose hospitals other than your local one if the waiting time is shorter elsewhere.
Further details on your rights under the NHS Constitution can be found on the Department of Health's website.
 
Well its not an easy ride waiting for your turn...patience is something we all struggle with at times.

You could start preparing yourself for surgery by showing your future team (surgeons etc) that your in in for the long haul. Before surgery your likely to have to go on the pre-op diet, which is either a milk-based diet or a very low calorie food diet with only healthy foods allowed.

I know some people have lost 2 or 3 stone whilst waiting for surgery. This is really good to kick start you into accepting that you`re going to have to get used to smaller portions, but also makes it healthier for you to shrink your liver and have it ready for the surgery.

On here a lot of us do a regular once a week weigh in. Could be any day (depends whether you have scales at home or have to pop to Boots to be weighed) but on Saturday we record what we weighed in for that week!

Also a lot of us record what we are eating daily - to help keep us in check as well to show if we need to make any changes. We all help and support each other.

I know (I think it was Tesmerelda) who is one of the moderators on site - was going to be doing a new weekly weigh in to award badges for those who do well....whether they be pre-op or post-op...have to look later to see if I can see the link for you. When I find it I`ll message you hun x

There is no pressure to join in the food weigh - in unless you really want to - so I understand if you want to wait a bit longer until you find out what happens to you regards your surgery.

Have a good look around the site and read some of the diaries - they are truly inspirational!


Must go for now Nichola - I have promised a clear out on my allotment today...speak soon hun x








Love Kat x
 
Patience is one thing you will have to have!I waited two and a half years.Use the time wisely,cut back on fats and stop smoking if you do.Get yourself healthy,take vitamins,exercise.Prepare yourself mentally,this is not just wls and the weight comes off.Its a lot of misery for some after surgery.You have to re learn shopping,diet,cooking,likes and dislikes,relationships and so much more.Start eating slow,chewing well,not drinking with food.The list is changable cos some people may need it more than you because of health probs.Holidays are coming up and hospital staff will be streched.Your day will come trust me!Maz x
 
Hi Nichola,

I know exactly what you mean about waiting being so frustrating. I've been fighting for a year to get a Tummy Tuck on the NHS and finally have a date for my pre-op appointment which is for the middle of next month. I also found out not long ago that if my GP had been more involved then it would have cut out 6 months where absolutely nothing moved forward. How bad is that?! I was passed over to a psychologist and it got to the point that I was calling her several times a day and if I didn't get a response I would go above her head. I remember in one day I called the psychologist, the PCT, my GP, PALS, the National Institute of Clinical Excellence, The Medical Ombudsman, and about 4 other places because it felt like I was being completely fobbed off!! I think at the end they HAD to get things moving just because I was such a pain in the behind! There have been so many times where I have got so upset because I just didn't know what was going on and it felt like nobody knew what I was going through.

Keep at them. Quote the 18 weeks and that might get them moving.

Good Luck!

Em

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Sorry your having to wait such a long time and with no date yet it really dosent help with your head. Keep going cant be far away and as the other guys say get your head into gear now as it will help when you have your op

All the best

Jo
xx
 
Hi Nichola
I am Derby too - its a years waiting list at the moment because they had to give up beds for a flu epidemic etc, so operations were cancelled. Like you I am so frustrated - for me it will be at least 2 years from first appt with GP to actual op! I went on the list this march.
We just have to keep going no matter how difficult it is.
 
thanks for all the kind words and great advice xx

im goin to look futher into going private or maybe trying a different hospital with a shorter waiting time :)
 
Just a thought, but could you call your pct and ask if they have any other providers with shorter waiting lists? Telford didn't have much of a waiting list last i heard although patients in Wolverhampton couldn't use it as it wasn't a recognised 'clinic of excellence' (some kind of standard) the hospitals in Sandwell however were referring there and waiting time was so soon it was ridiculous...

On a second note, you are not the first to be impatient, we all have had to wait, although some further out were lucky not to get caught up in the sudden influx of patients getting surgery. As Maz very wisely said, use the time to prepare both mentally and physically. The fitter you are for your surgery the easier and faster your recovery. I am a none smoker and i tried to exercise and watch what i ate (a bit lol) before my surgery and i was only in for 24 hours and two days later trotting off with my discharge letter for my gp. I had a wonderful recovery which would have only been better if i weighed 9 stone less than i did :)

As for food, we are all different. At first i couldn't tolerate eggs, yet i could eat bread which some bypassers can't. In fact there is not a bread baked i cannot not just tolerate but thoroughly enjoy, crusts n all :). The further out from surgery the more digestible/edible food becomes, eggs nor prawns cause me no grief. Rice not cooked by my favourite brother in law really bothers my pouch, or at least it did last time i had it, so i don't eat rice anywhere except at my BIL's. Apart from that i love to smell, eat and look at food now, i have no regrets..... I still love FOOD and it still loves ME!
 
hey julie xx in prep ive started exercising more, walking dog afterwork and tryin to be more active in general, just re decorated the whole upstairs of my house, thts a killer on ur calfs wen ur stood on ladders for ages hehe

i dont smoke and i dnt really eat a lot of bad foods like take out, cakes, biccies ect. my down fall is my portion size :-( and carbs! i love bread

i keep tryin to have a slim fast day once a week, it works up until evenin then im famished lol, i end up binging and all tht hard work goes down the drain :-(

i really struggle to eat fruit and salad its nt tht i dnt like it, im just really not fussed about it. i no i need to change my ways about it, ne ideas on weenin myself onto fruit gladly appreciated lol

i dont smoke, barely eva drink and neva done drugs

ooo one of my main vices is tesco finest cookies! i can eat all 4 in one sittin its so bad ( portion control!)

ah well thts a bit about my eating habits, dnt help tht i work in tesco on deli counter nd im surrounded by food all day :-(
 
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