EmDubs
Bleurgh...!
Hi All,
I need to know how this all works. Feel a bit stuck.
I have twice gone to my GP and asked for a tummy tuck as I still look pregnant after having my daughter 4 years ago and both times it has been refused. I (26) have now gone to him a 3rd time and said this is now affecting my marriage so much that my husband (who's 24) sleeps on the sofa and we have not been intimate for the past 4 years. We are now discussing separation and divorce. I cannot bare to even leave the house sometimes and have had the thought I just wanna cut my tummy off myself. I have had a telephone assessment from the local mental health team and they are calling me back next week to let me know what they think will be the best course of action, whether it's surgery or therapy. I have told them I dont want to be on anti-depressants or going to counselling for the rest of my life because that wont take the problem away.
If they come back to me and tell me thats the only option what can I do?
If they say they are referring me for surgery then what happens? How long should I have to wait?
Thank you all.
I need to know how this all works. Feel a bit stuck.
I have twice gone to my GP and asked for a tummy tuck as I still look pregnant after having my daughter 4 years ago and both times it has been refused. I (26) have now gone to him a 3rd time and said this is now affecting my marriage so much that my husband (who's 24) sleeps on the sofa and we have not been intimate for the past 4 years. We are now discussing separation and divorce. I cannot bare to even leave the house sometimes and have had the thought I just wanna cut my tummy off myself. I have had a telephone assessment from the local mental health team and they are calling me back next week to let me know what they think will be the best course of action, whether it's surgery or therapy. I have told them I dont want to be on anti-depressants or going to counselling for the rest of my life because that wont take the problem away.
If they come back to me and tell me thats the only option what can I do?
If they say they are referring me for surgery then what happens? How long should I have to wait?
Thank you all.