I'll copy out the handout I was given for soft foods
breakfast ideas- weetabix, porridge or ready brek, shreddies soaked well in milk, light or diet yoghurt, scrambled eggs
meal ideas- minced meat, oily fish scrambled egg, baked beans, grated cheese, pulses or lentils, quorn. Over-cooked pasta, cous cous, jacket potato without skin, mashed potato, masked parsnips (no skin) well cooked vegetables, tinned tomatos, soft mushy peas. Tuna mayo
snack ideas- ripe fruit with soft texture, skins and large seeds removed- tinned fruit is good the stuff in it's own juice not syrup. Stewed fruits with no added sugar.
low sugar custard, milky drinks, angel delight or blancmange.
The texture you are aiming for is mashed food you could eat with just a fork. Similar to mashed potatoes with minced meat and plenty of gravy ( I ate and still eat Mr Brains Faggots for the texture, tasty tasty faggots)