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Aftercare what aftercare??? The Hospital Group
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I can't see in any posts that girly girl has had surgery. I asked in a previous post but no reply.
Not that it makes much difference but wonder if she is awaiting surgery or not.
If neither why would she be posting on here???
Hopefully she will pop in and let us know.
Before I had surgery I don't think I would be posting such negative comments x
Not that it makes much difference but wonder if she is awaiting surgery or not.
If neither why would she be posting on here???
Hopefully she will pop in and let us know.
Before I had surgery I don't think I would be posting such negative comments x
BlueDiamond
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Girlygirl has been asked repeatedly on several posts which wls she has had and does not reply to anyone on that question, personally speaking I would like to know what wls a member has b4 giving out advice , after all I wouldnt want to give a bypasser info on banding ( hope that makes sense) - The mind boggles
BlueDiamond
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Yvessa
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http://www.wlsurgery.com/gastric-bypass-rny-6-month-post-op/144105-my-six-month-thoughts.html
The last post on this is why I don't think girlygirl has had wls. I get the feeling she is now gone.
The last post on this is why I don't think girlygirl has had wls. I get the feeling she is now gone.
BlueDiamond
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It does question to me as to why someone who has not had wls is on a wls site - it does make you wonder doesnt it . thanks for sharing x x
Tobi
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I havent seen that post before. Why hang out in wls forums though, why not go hang out at minimins for example, weird. Admirable thing to lose 140lb without wls but doesn't explain the attitude.
I personally do not want preaching from anyone else but who has gone through surgery. Thats my choice and thats why im here. If i wanted that, i'd go talk to my mum who was mega against surgery and stopped talking to me for weeks before my op because i was obviously doing this to kill myself... or some of my skinny friends who weigh 9 stones and complain they are too fat/they ate too much etc.
Even talking to my mu pisses me off she keeps asking how much i lost every single day because i went through so much and risked my life lol, she says she's trying to see if it was worth it all... As if its her to decide that... Anyway, rant over... X
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I personally do not want preaching from anyone else but who has gone through surgery. Thats my choice and thats why im here. If i wanted that, i'd go talk to my mum who was mega against surgery and stopped talking to me for weeks before my op because i was obviously doing this to kill myself... or some of my skinny friends who weigh 9 stones and complain they are too fat/they ate too much etc.
Even talking to my mu pisses me off she keeps asking how much i lost every single day because i went through so much and risked my life lol, she says she's trying to see if it was worth it all... As if its her to decide that... Anyway, rant over... X
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BlueDiamond
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Hello Mimi - We wasnt questioning what she said, more questioning how someone who has not had wls is offering people advice when they have not been through any wls procedure themselves, it like trying to teach someone how to drive when you cant drive yourself ( hope that makes sense
) All the "googling" in the world doesnt have a patch on experience ( in my eyes) Girlygirl has done wonders to lose the weight she had done
Yvessa
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I personally feel that if I've come on to a forum for advice I want someone who's been there hot the t-shirt. I can google too. Googling isn't the same as people who've been there seen how tough it is holding you up through the hard days. And I'm incredibly suspicious of her agenda and the truth of anything she says and happy to admit that.
Yvessa
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I'm glad her advice helped you. Personally I disagree, although we shouldn't dwell on bad days as that causes us to sabotage, it is up to us to try to plan for success. That's not the same as saying we have to be perfect, but I am too scared to not be in control, and I have the advantage of the malabsorption for the bypass.
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