So happy this was posted as I was sure it was the band I wanted, just seemed less invasive and frankly 'easier' considering I have to fly back to Ireland from the UK after surgery.
I was thinking of the money, how much time my mum (who would be with me) would be away from the rest of family etc
All the wrong reasons, I have done EVERYTHING to lose weight and it has got too much for me now mentally and physically.
Most people lose weight and get more active but with me having M.E becoming a gym bunny is unlikely.
I am also terrified of being in N.Ireland something going wrong with the band and having nowhere to turn...kept brushing that question off when asked but it does scare me.
I go to see Mr Somers at the end of September and I think I will be more interested in the bypass...will obviously see what he thinks but I don't want to spend £6000 and in a year feeling I should have spent the extra £3000 0r £4000 for the bypass.
Scary but as I said to family I don't have a life, I hate how I look and I am so unhappy. Also the whole 'slider food' issue scares me, I don't eat a lot of sweet stuff as it is not in the house but I thought to myself...If I were locked in a shop for the night what aisle would I visit first and I realised it would be the sweet/pudding one and I would probably not move too far!
I know initially it will be a longer stay in Chichester, more money etc but I truly feel it will be worth it in the long term.