Been doing ALOT of thinking .....

[piratess]

Thanks for your reply.... Wouldn't life be so mush easier if money were no object!! Ggrrr
I finally had the chat Witt my OH last night standing in the kitchen, he said he would come to my appointment with me and that I should have known he would. In his eyes he doesn't see a problem he loves me BUT knows it bothers me everyday because he can see it in my eyes!

He also said that even though we may go to see consultant we wouldn't be able to afford surgery, as we struggle as it is :-(

Then we had the whole chat about more excersize, dieting etc I tried to explain it's not that simple he tried to understand and then I got upset ......

Guys should I still go to this appointment? Xxxx

 

[Deets]

go hun x

 

[dani38]

Yes go. I went and I haven t got the money yet. think it just helps to go and talk things over love. My biggest prob at the moment is I am eating loads because I am constantly thinking about the surgery and know haven t really got the money. To be honest it worrys of just how much I can eat. ALso it may help your oh realise just how much you do want it. Do you have children my biggest worry would be not being able to look after them afterwards x x

 

[happyhilary]

Just wanted to say good luck x

 

[piratess]

Thanks I think I will still go even if for my own sanity.... Other wise I'm going to end up sending myself insane thinking about constantly 24/7

I do have children 17.12.5 so if I ever did have the op I'd have to make sure it was during a school holiday so my eldest could help a bit

XX

 

[dani38]

Mine are younger 8 and 2 sounds like we are defo on the same journey. spoke to my hub about it today and he said that its about life style and I never stick to a diet for more than 2 months x X That said he did say would still support me if that's what I wanted x