Karlos
New Member
Thanks every one you're very lovely
I would love to be able to invite hundreds of people and it's going to be so hard to keep the numbers to a reasonable level. The way I see it we are hardly in the first flush of youth and are getting married for specific reasons. I want the day to be very special for Val but always at the back of my mind is that every penny we spend this year on the wedding and other stuff, Val is not going to have when I'm not here next year (Maybe even this year) My biggest concern is that she has her day, but I want her to not be worried about money when I've gone to give her the time she needs to find someone new and start a new life with them
Her second wedding can be the twenty grand festival of wild spending (Provided the guy can afford it LOL) but this one needs to be carefully budgeted I'm afraid. Although my rather low estimate of two grand went west real quick LOL
Thanks again xxxxxxx
I would love to be able to invite hundreds of people and it's going to be so hard to keep the numbers to a reasonable level. The way I see it we are hardly in the first flush of youth and are getting married for specific reasons. I want the day to be very special for Val but always at the back of my mind is that every penny we spend this year on the wedding and other stuff, Val is not going to have when I'm not here next year (Maybe even this year) My biggest concern is that she has her day, but I want her to not be worried about money when I've gone to give her the time she needs to find someone new and start a new life with them
Her second wedding can be the twenty grand festival of wild spending (Provided the guy can afford it LOL) but this one needs to be carefully budgeted I'm afraid. Although my rather low estimate of two grand went west real quick LOL
Thanks again xxxxxxx