Hi there
Caz bandys post is fantastic and spot on, it is not usually painful just embaressing and can be uncomfortable, when you have a smear performed abnormal results are graded as stage 1 to 5 (Darkayosis) cant spell that lol, even the worst grade is still pre cancerous cells and if hey had found them to be cancerous or at stage 5 your appt would have been made for a colposcopy a lot sooner , when you have the coloposcopy they will show u on a screen the area thats has changed cells they will usually take a biopsy away and depending on results will depend on treatment, which is usually a loop excision or a cone biopsy, try not to worry so much, i know thats easy for me to say.
Thinking about you hon, let us know how you get on, always here to support
Helen
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