I'm 56 just had my 1st appointment, so only just starting my journey! But I too have grandchildren and diabetes knee problems etc. But I want a thinner, healthier life so I can enjoy life to the full with family and friends. I too have four grown up children 2 boys 2 girls and a hubby who are all supporting me! So I am lucky, surgery cannot come fast enough for me! I have just one negative person who doesn't think I should do it, that's my youngest sister. She thinks all I need is a smaller plate,and I will never be able to go out for a meal or socialize again!!