right now ,this moment,is the happiest time of our lives, after a really tough 10 years,,,and normal ups and downs of life ,plus heart break of losing loved ones , the stress of waiting for this op,, this is the light at the end of the tunnel,i let this op take over my every thought,it became the only thing in my head ,stopped me from enjoying my time waiting ,now i realise i can carry on enjoying myself as i wait for my date,yes its life changing but not life destroying,,,thanks everyone x