I am eating healthy too (always have done, it's just there was just too much of it!).
I however went back to bad habits of eating nuts in front of tv, still healthy in small doses but my stomach can somehow has no limit for nuts. Maybe because it is eaten in small portions, over a long period time. Pistachios, 500 calories in 100 grams...
anyway, stopped buying them... husband and daughter not pleased but if they are there, I am on it. simple solution to that one....
I am also slowly coming around to ordering small portions in restaurants. In the past, I would just select the most stodgy, big volume dish. Not necessarily the one I would most like. Greedy eyes and stomach. Lately I order what I want, so good. I feel normal... I don't have to glance around to see people seeing me eating that big portion, pretending I did not care... shovelling in...
good riddance to that!