Thanks for your reply Gingernutter.
At the moment I really don't know. The last I heard from the hospital was when I spoke to them in late January and they had cancelled my op scheduled for 31st Jan as they needed to get more information on some of my existing medical conditions, mainly the fact that I was told I was not to have another blood transfusion because a previous attempt 'went wrong'. I didn't know all the details about it, only that I was told not to have one. I mentioned this and they need to check out the reason why (obviously, just in case I need one after the op). I also need to have other tests done for some other things like sleep apnoea. Anyhow, I've not heard anything from them, but I am also finding myself on a bit of a plateau at the moment. I've been steadily loosing weight since putting myself on a self imposed diet/change of lifestyle once I was told I had got the op. I've now lost two stone and still dropping. I've never in my life before, ever managed to stay on a diet for more than a week. Lost a couple of pounds then put it all back and then some. I've been on this for about six months now, and although I know it's not as quick as loosing weight after a gastric bypass, I feel I am achieving something and doing it without medical intervention and the associated risks.
Who knows, if I hear from the hospital and they give me another date, then I may change my mind again and go for it, but at the moment, I feel ok plodding on with it. I have a male friend who is doing Weight Watchers, and we are encouraging each other. I've never had anyone to diet with seriously before, and have that encouragement. I also have some troubles in my private life (which I don't feel I can go into here - no offense intended to all those who have been so supportive). I don't know that I could cope with adding more hassles to it at the moment, so I guess you could say I am taking a bit of a back seat from the surgical weight loss idea at the moment. I'm still using my Tesco's Lighter Choices meal replacement shakes twice a day and eating low calorie ready meals and eating fresh fruit and the odd low calorie snack if I feel really peckish. It seems to be working as although I have the odd minor fluctuation, my mind set has improved greatly and if offered something fattening or 'naughty' then I usually decline because loosing weight means so much to me. If I do slip up then I view it as a treat and get right back on my diet the next day. I've never been able to stay on track like this before but feel so positive this time, I really want it to work.
Anyhow, I feel a bit of a fraud being on this forum at the moment, but I do read from time to time and wish every one well with their chosen path. I may still join your ranks yet, who knows, but for now I'm kind of 'going it alone'.
Hugs to all.