shelleymarie
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Did anyone else find that their friends have moved on without them? What I mean by that is since starting to feeling so much better the last week or so I've tried reaching out to friends to try and arrange getting together. I've realised that whilst at my fattest I had taken a back seat in their life's, not their fault at all but mine. I've decline invites out to bars because I felt self concious and also anything that involved activity as I could barely walk. Now I'm realising they just don't ask any more, I see that they've been done things like parties etc and I can't blame them for not inviting me. It's not like I've said yes lately. Did this happen to anyone else? if so did you manage to fix things? I have tried inviting some to do things but of course they have filled the gap I left and have busy life's that don't include me now. It makes me really sad that I've done another things to sabotage my life and make it as miserable as possible. Just need to find a way to make a improvement to this part of my life too. Any advice gratefully received thank you.