Like Jo28172, I am very close to my healthy bmi & weight goals 10-13lbs whether I get closer to the personal goal I set myself another 2st from where i am now is for the future & may need the excess skin removing to do that. But I started weight watchers pre-op & started losing with them I use the weekly weighing to keep track of my losses, stalls & occasional gains. Stalls I can cope with even if it shows me I am not losing & if I'm having a bad time with my old bad habits trying to come back I'm doing just enough to keep the balance but not to be complacent. Ww is my crutch around my rare chances if attending support group meetings and once I reach my healthy bmi & weight goal & get my free meetings it will keep me on track. I'm am convinced that it would be far to easy to get personally complacent & regains, I am determined not to buy bigger sizes again my new wardrobe is here to stay & for it to stay I need to stay focussed & work with this life long tool not to spoil the chance my surgeon gave me. If I keep to the programme I hope to do just that I'm sorry if this sounds moralising but for me it's my mantra however it doesn't mean I'm perfect & so I have to keep working not just to reach my goal but to stay there.
As the others say go back to basics, small meals high protein low fat low carbs high fibre, waterload & eat from a small plate & slowly does it to get back into the good habits we learnt post-op & shift those gains for a long slim & healthy future. Good luck & welcome, stick around the help support & guidance on here is great the best free advice you'll ever get, make great friends even if you never physically meet them the guys & gals on here are the best. Let's none of us end up like that lady in Cornwall who over ate so much she stretched her oesophagus, blocked it & suffocated herself because of that. A sad warning for us all she hadn't told her family about her bypass telling them instead she had had cancer treatment so was obviously one mixed up lady in need of help but didn't get it because of her failure to share her problems.