Cee - we all have to learn about the new us, and how we behave and what we attract. There is no doubt the changes are immense. I have lost several of my closest friends for reasons I do not understand and which have not been explained to me ... I conclude they cannot connect with the new confident go-getting me which shows how shallow our friendships must have been ... that is just one example from my experiences. I have of course made many new friends (some know my story, but most do not as it is not relevant really). I now feel pretty confident, and am ready for whatever 2016 brings me - hopefully a bloke! I am so excited for you hun - and all that will come into your life as you continue to emerge like a butterfly from the chrysalis. Yep, friends for life thanks to WLS and we must defo catch-up this year in person - would be awesome xxxxxxxxx