At the end of the day it is about your health and what is best for you and your family. My OH and siblings were very worried, however, M attended nearly all the support meetings with me and saw what a difference this surgery has made to others. In the end he was my advocate and although worried I wouldn't make it off the table supported me throughout. Even a few years ago when I thought of having a band and finance was v. tight he looked into how we could manage it. Luckily, I got NHS funding and found out the surgery which was really right for me.
It is a shock when someone you love talks about doing some thing that is so life changing. I am sure in time he will come to see your point of view and support you, even if he doesn't totally agree. If not, ask yourself what is it he really wants for you?
love and hugs.
Rebirth x
It is a shock when someone you love talks about doing some thing that is so life changing. I am sure in time he will come to see your point of view and support you, even if he doesn't totally agree. If not, ask yourself what is it he really wants for you?
love and hugs.
Rebirth x