hi everyone well mam is hanging in there how she does it god only knows, thank you all so much for your kind words and about charlie, i will be going back up mams in a bit just had to come home to make sure everyone is ok, it was so strange walking in the house and charlie wasnt there, but i know now that he isnt suffering anymore bless him, as for mam well i dont know what to say, the dr rang me again to say she might not last through the night but they have said that numerous times before and shes still here, she has more lives than a cat lol, i will keep you all informed or text 1 of the girls and they can post a thread for me, i get great comfort from knowing that you all think of mam there is some compassion left in the world after all, and when i see her i tell her that you all ask about her and send her prayers that puts a smile on her face, so i thank you for that, alot of you have had similar experiences yourselves and i dont know how you coped with it but you did sending big hugs to you all take care god bless, love georgina xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx