im losing the hope : (

[liannos]

ive lost 3stone 7lbs and ive been told
my op could be in july :sigh: im getting so down wating ive but on 7lbs of it i hate my self so much ive started to drink as well all i have is my husband to talk to my mum does not give a **** not realy its all her her her my dad is lovely but he has to put up with my mum lol i dont know what to do half the time i just wait to be normal have a good friend and live but most of the time i just want to cry

 

[rybens]

Oh lianne sorry your feeling down but dont give up hope you have done fantastic so far and july is not that far away at all x 7lb is easy to get rid of you have done it before , dont let it creep up to 14lb because that will really get you down and its still to get back off again post op, chin up keep strong pm me any time for a chat x x

 

[Neen]

Not long to go now! Focus on you , hubby and your kids! That's what I did! Family in general sometimes can be more hindrance than a help. Keep strong because your turn is coming so soon x

 

[dottychic]

Aw Lianne try and stay strong, I think most of us here have had times where we have felt like you are at the mo. It does pass, and you will be feeling much happier soon. Try and focus on how great you will feel once you have had your op. Chin up girl.....you are fab! x

 

[smilergem]

Hi Lianne, I know you must feel disappointed, but we may be in hospital together as I was told probably end of June or July as well, I think they are just really backlogged with people, they have done loads of pre ops but they have taken on another surgeon this month, so that may speed things up a bit. Try to keep positive, I have been waiting four years which is a lot longer than most people on this site hun xxxx

 

[SOON SLIM SUE]

sorry your having such a bad time at the mo.
sounds to me that you need to take a leaf out of your mum's book and think of me me me and your op op op.
how i kept focused is, look at befor and after pics, go on to ebay and look at clothes in smaller sizes, decide what look you would like when your weight has dropped.
just focus on you you you.
the 7lb you put on can come off easy with a few days milk diet, so dont let that get you down.
good luck

 

[phatmomma]

Hi Lianne

I know just how you feel, except i didnt lose a phenomenal amount of weight!

Keep your chin up girl and if you're feeling like something the dog did on next door's newly mown lawn give me a shout on facebook, we can have a b******* session and cheer ourselves up no end xx

 

[Sambucca]

Hi Lianne,

Sorry you are finding things a bit tough at the moment hun. Waiting for WLS is such a stressful period, and Im sorry your mum is not being supportive.

Losing 3 1/2 stones is just awesome hun, especially to do that prior to surgery. I take my hat off to you. Dont worry about that 1/2 stone because you will lose that and maybe more when you have to do your pre op liver shrinking diet.

If you feel like you could use a friend, why not post a new thread looking for other Cornwall WLSers to meet up with for the occasional coffee and a natter. That was a lifeline to me when I was pre-op, and honestly I dont think I could have managed without local support from people who understood how I felt.

 

[J-Mo]

MY GAWD!!! 3 & a half stones is fantastic achievement!! Please don't get dis-heartened, I know its easier said than done but keep strong.. Take care

 

[SCOOBYDOOBYDOO]

I could have written the same post myself last week...well apart from the 3 and a half stone bit!
I know just how you feel, I was told february then nothing. Then went in march and the surgeon moved the goalposts so I had even more weight to lose.
It really is so so stressful.
I eventually got my date through last week and it is such a relief.
I also put on ten pounds during the easter holidays but have lost it and more since so you will be fine.
Hang on in there.....keep chatting on here cos we all know how you feel.
Much love

 

[liannos]

thanks all you great xxxx

 

[liannos]

xxxx

 

[liannos]

Hi Lianne

I know just how you feel, except i didnt lose a phenomenal amount of weight!

Keep your chin up girl and if you're feeling like something the dog did on next door's newly mown lawn give me a shout on facebook, we can have a b******* session and cheer ourselves up no end xx

hahahaha ok xxxxx

 

[moonflower]

just wanted to say stay strong and get back on track as soon as your able too. Dont give yourself such a hard time which i know is easier said than done.
Sending you a big hug

xx