Whilst I'm in the mood for posting (can you hear that tune in the background .....I'm in the mood for dancing...no well never mind) here are a few more As for our series
A is for Attitude - Have you got it right? No disrespect to anyone but haven't many of us been very very large and often we adapt our attitude to that. As an example some feel they must not be too loud and stand out as their weight makes then so much more open to criticism from ill informed people anyway and they don't want to attract attention. Has your attitude changed now? Does that change bring problems with it? For many it does. Relationships can be affected and friendships lost. Were you, are you prepared for that and have you any tips for others?
As you get further out attitude becomes important in so many areas of the wls journey. Now I know many don't like the 'diet' word. How many times do you see posted I am never going to diet again, I am a total failure at dieting etc. Well my argument is that 'diet' is just a term for a food approach and eating plan. You may feel you failed, for gawds sake how many of us didn't, you don't get large without that to some degree. BUT and here is what I think is the long term kicker we have to get this attitude changed. Bypassers will see their restriction lessen the further out they get but those like me will also see their attitude needs changing and I really struggle with that change do you?????