Well in all honesty when we got married last year it was a very low key affair, we'd hummed and hahhed about whether to do it pre or post op but when faced with life changing surgery we decided pre op, we didn't have much of a budget so brought what fitted and we could afford. The plan being to either get it altered or, when we have our blessing (which will be when i feel absolutely marvellous and Trev is happier within his body) we would then buy the rings we want for life..... My original wedding ring will always be special but if i can't have it altered it will stay close to my heart xx