Good morning , more doctors appointments Monday and Tuesday then the last one on August 4 with pulmonary doctor then surgery on the 13th . Time is flying by now I think my wife is getting worried about me losing weight and she is still overweight . We cannot afford for both of us to get the surgery her insurance doesn't cover it . I have Medicare and they will cover 80% of cost . We are saving for her to have surgery but she is starting to say things like I will lose the weight and leave her . I never gave her any reason to think this we have been happily married for almost 39 yrs . I have been trying to tell that we will get the money for her too and that I love her very much and would never leave but she is having a hard time adjusting . She is going on weight watchers again last time she lost almost 70 lbs but like most of us she gain it back . I tried to tell her that our meals will change after my surgery and that will help with her losing weight too. Anyone have any ideals that can help me make her feel better about herself I would really appreciate it . Sent from my iPad using WLSurgery