Thanks Judy, i dont think my gp is very happy with me having a bypass anyway, so im going to change doctors xxx
Oh good luck, Caren -- I really hope you find a more supportive GP and have more success with the next one.
Having a GP who is 100% behind the referral helps enormously. For 8 years I thought that bypass was never going to be an option for me, as I had asked GP after GP (I have moved a few times and had registered with various different GPs during 2003 - 2009 in Kilburn, Greenwich, Hackney and other areas).
Every time I got told no / turned down / given Xenical / fobbed off ........ it started to pee me off when I kept reading in the papers about
"gastric bypass patients cost the NHS blah blah amount" I kept wondering -- how? what bypass patients? Because not one single GP seemed to ever be willing to refer me (my weight was over 20 stone at age 35 in 2003 and BMI very nearly 50 then).
Then in 2009 I was diagnosed with Type 2 Diabetes by my (then) Hackney GP ...... and both he and his nurse sort of mumbled at the time,
"Oh well, yes, bypass might be an option now you have BMI above 50 and Type 2 Diabetes but....." but they wanted to "give me a year" to see how I would cope with the Diabetes !!!
Then in
January 2011 i had some sort of "right time, right place" moment where everything slipped into place. I went to see my NEW gp in my new area to get him to sign a form for Lighter Life and he refused (!!) -- he said it was rubbish and I would put all the weight back on and why did I want to do such a nonsense, ridiculous, expensive programme (this is a GP who earns at least 3 times what I do!) and
why hadn't I thought of a gastric bypass ?????I
He was Mr Fabulous from start to finish -- it was entirely his idea to refer me (rather than me begging for once!) and he was 100% supportive.
PM me if you want the name of that GP or to "borrow" my address and pretend you are living where I was living in Jan 2011 !!!!!