God i'm gonna be pedantic here and Jaffa Cake please don't take offence... But you say you aren't losing the rest of your weight because you are eating crap, but then tell Emm she needs to follow the diet? That confused me a lot....
Emm, jaffacake is right laxatives are not the route to go and you know it so please don't get into that vicious cycle. Everybody loses weight at the same right, you may think you are behind others but as you say when you first started you were not eating enough to lose weight...
Stalls happen to everyone, i had a bypass and i'm on a second weeks weigh in of no weight loss although i today fitted into a size 20 pair of stretch 3/4 jeans whereas 7 weeks ago it was a size 26... Go figure....
You know what you need to eat, it's tougher for banders i think because of the ease it is to cheat, at least us bypassers have to worry about dumping...
Keep the faith you are doing great xx