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[jaffa_cake]

Can i just clear something up, i said abotu senekot as im slightly bunged up NOT to give my self the squits to cause weightloss im really not that stupid!!!!

As for eating crap, yes i expect im as guilty as the next person for having the odd thing, but i dotn sit there stuffing myself with it. I admitted that before i wasnt eating enough (less then 500ish calories) i thought this was enough, until i was directed in the right direction...

I think also some credit is due to myself with the dress size loss, ok the scales might not been moving at a rapid rate but they are moving. At the start i had to put up with at least 6 weeks worth of infection, so it wasnt a rosey start for me. Im not wanting sympathy abotu that either.
Id love to head to the gym and work out sessions but unfortunaltey i dont have the financial means to do that.
Im not a lard ass who sits arounf doign sweet FA all day either thats for sure.

I never once said you were a lard arse or lazy or anything like that, I also said well done about the coming down in dress sizes. I also know you weren't eating enough as I also replied to that thread. I ate the wrong stuff a few times at the start but soon nipped it in the bud before it got out of hand, I then followed my diet sheet to a T and thats when the weight came off.

I was NEVER having a go at you in any of my previous posts, I can only go by what I read and when you said you will hopefully loose some weight with a senokot what else am I suppose to think?

You dont need money to go out for a walk, walking is the best exercise and if you can afford to go swimming even once a week then go for it.

I have only ever tried to help you, I dont come one here to lecture people or have a go, if thats how it comes across then I dont know what else to say, its very hard sometimes to put into words something you want to say without it coming across as something different!

Jaffa

 

[phatmomma]

I'm not eating crap and didn't say I was, I'm eating good food but with a bit too much gravy or sauce turning it into sliders but i'm still not able to eat massive amounts hence why i'm not gaining!! I have lost the majority of my weight and the last stone isn't bothering me, if I loose it I loose it if I dont I dont. Emm hasn't lost 1 stone yet and she is 3 months post op, in my opinion she should have lost more which would have been achieved if the diet plan was followed to a T, i'm not having a go at her, i'm trying to help her, i'm not telling her to follow my latest eating regime that would be stupid! I honestly dont know how you are confused I have told her to eat healthily and not use laxatives what is confusing about that?

So sorry Jaffa Cake, i presumed (wrongly) when you said you were not eating right that it meant you were eating crap....

Surely we all lose weight at different rates? Not all losers are the same... A lot of Emm's problems was not eating enough, which us serial dieters know is as bad as eating too much at times...

Luckily Emm has discovered this through doing an honest and open post about her food intake and is addressing it.

Sorry i just thought your original post was a bit critical, but being on my third stall in just over 6 weeks i'm feeling sensitive about weight loss especially as i eat correctly

 

[jaffa_cake]

So sorry Jaffa Cake, i presumed (wrongly) when you said you were not eating right that it meant you were eating crap....

Surely we all lose weight at different rates? Not all losers are the same... A lot of Emm's problems was not eating enough, which us serial dieters know is as bad as eating too much at times...

Luckily Emm has discovered this through doing an honest and open post about her food intake and is addressing it.

Sorry i just thought your original post was a bit critical, but being on my third stall in just over 6 weeks i'm feeling sensitive about weight loss especially as i eat correctly

I'm only trying to help her!

 

[cherry]

sometimes the net can be a NIGHTMARE as you cant hear peoples tone of voice, or facial expressions or how its ment to come across like you would in 'real life' eeeeek happened to me many a time xxx

 

[BandyEmm]

thanks for your input. As ive said i lost 30lbs on pre-op but dont include that in my ticker, So all in all it would have been 41.7lbs..

 

[jaffa_cake]

sometimes the net can be a NIGHTMARE as you cant hear peoples tone of voice, or facial expressions or how its ment to come across like you would in 'real life' eeeeek happened to me many a time xxx

I know its so hard, I speak to people on here like I would my best friend and you just expect when something you are saying in your head is comin out like that on here when it clearly isn't, actually puts you off posting sometimes cos you know it just isn't gonna come out how you want it to :sigh:

 

[jaffa_cake]

thanks for your input. As ive said i lost 30lbs on pre-op but dont include that in my ticker, So all in all it would have been 41.7lbs..

Thats fantastic and you should include that on your ticker, I never lost 1lb on my pre-op because I didn't bother doing it, my op was booked 1 week before so I ate everything I would never be able to eat again in that last week!

 

[cherry]

ooo it shouldnt hun, if your on any forum it ll happen to EVERYONE at some point kinda dust yourself off and carry on x

 

[phatmomma]

Your right Kelly, the internet is a wonderful tool but people's tones can be misinterpreted.....

I always try and imagine i am the person the post is aimed at but still sometimes it comes across wrong

 

[BandyEmm]

I didnt put it on my ticker as i know alot of that was water, so nto a proper indication to real weightloss.
Id rather no what i was loosing post op.
Its only the last 3 weeks that the scales have been moving.
I certainly dont have sugary stuff cos im also a diabetic and on meds for it.

 

[cherry]

somethings right tho emm as your losing inchs! maybe to put your mind at rest do you have the number for your dietacian or nurse?..... (sorry spelling eek) so you dont have to wait as long till sep xx

 

[BandyEmm]

Hey hun, to be honest im not worried right now, cos its more than what has been happenening. I expect its where im slightly constipated ( hence the senekot) so as soon as that shifts im sure i will have a loss next week.

x

 

[cherry]

ok cool x

 

[JOWOOD4]

Keep up the good work Em by sticking with it. We all have odd weeks where you can't explain either the loss or the gain. Just shows the body is a funny old thing but you will get there in the end.
Loads of hugs to you
Jo XX:wave_cry:

 

[BandyEmm]

Thanks Jo xx