happy days
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What do you think is best for post oppers. Iam down to 12.9-12.13 and keep bouncing between these. Don't get me wrong from 26.12 at my biggest iam well chuffed but wud really love to be 11.10. Anybody got any advice.
happy days said:That's great Jo. I've lost 4 this week but it's only what I put on last week lol x
penelope1008 said:But at least it's gone again. I think we all get lulled into a false sense of security we know about the first golden 6mths or so but manage to forget about it until we hit the wall where we really have to focus on the diet & exercise far more than we have in those first months. I'm not saying we don't but initially it's a steep curve learning what works for us & what doesn't, but I think gradually we relax & are surprised when things slow down or stop & we have to focus on our intake again & relive controlled eating to maintain our focus to get us to the goal we aim for.
I for one am struggling with the old demons making me prey to old habits of sloth & gluttony, the gluttony may be smaller than in the past but it's still gluttony & just because I let the head hunger win. I need to get things back under control if I'm to reach my oh so near & yet so far goal. I only have myself to blame if I don't buy at least I'm aware & react to my failures & I will win I will control my inner self not let it control me. I will not learn to walk the walk , talk the talk & fail as I have in the past I like the new slimmer healthier me I will not return to the fat me. I may not like the flabby sagging bits of me that are the evidence of the years of self abuse but with or without surgery to reduce that I need to learn to like the new body shape with its flaws & scars because with or without surgery it like me will never be perfect. But I'll do my best to be better than I was.