Hi Slaz
I fully understand you not telling anyone other than your wife. I have only told 3 people besides my GP. None of my family, apart from my partner, or close friends are aware which has been a bit difficult when eating out socially but everyone thinks I had my hiatus hernia repaired, which I did at the same time, and this is why I can only eat small amounts.
My family would be very judgemental and since I have lost weight one of my close friends has been very 'off hand' with me making comments about isn't it time I put some weight back on. This is from someone who is a size 12 and has never dieted!!
As a job I work as a nurse for detainees in police custody and was recently asked to assess a detainee with a band as they were refusing to eat and and was horrified by the judgemental comments made by police officers and custody staff. I was so pleased I had never made the people I work with on daily basis aware of my band.
Anyway, enough about me. You only have to wait another 2 days now. Really really good luck with your surgery and your future weight loss journey.
I will be thinking of you on Monday.