Its the simple things like tying my own shoe laces that have meant the most to me so far.
I have had this dream of being supernan, doing outrageous things with the kids and taking all the little ones to Disney World. Thats as long as I can go on the rides too, (getting a bit fed up of being asked to tag along knowing that its only because they need someone to watch the bags while they all have a good time..lol)
As for other stuff like swimming with Dolphins or seeing other countries, I've done all that while being fat. Apart from what I physically can't do because of the arthiritis I have never let my weight dictate to me if I can help it.
Just cause I was fat didn't mean I couldn't get in the sea or sunbathe (dare I say it, topless) on a beach somewhere. I decided a long time ago, your a long time dead in this world so enjoy it now while you can.