I do believe it Kelly, you still look terrific... I am just the same when it comes to exercising, there is no way I can go through wearing a swimming costume or go to a gym, on two accounts being honest, firstly, because I am all out of shape and made worse by the spondylititis and secondly that feeling of always being the biggest in the room is a thing for me... I have never been able to find a class in our area for people with weight problems, I don't think there are enough of these about and even at the diabetic clinic... I keep asking as I'm not well enough to take the lead but I would give a load of support to helping others and wish there was more importance emphasised on the need for classes with an understanding of issues for those of us in areas with weight issues, doesn't help with living out of things either... but I would join a group if I could and this website is great, we can all help each other xxx