Oopseydaisy
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Tbh, I'm a bit sad today
All of my surgery buddies have disappeared, and never post
This site is about helping others, seeking advice especially
But where are all the 2014 Banders/ Bypassers / Sleevers?
( not kar & Bear, my lovely surgery buddies, but the other 95%? )
My diary is a bit boring, I know it is, lol
A lot of people read it, even though its in the bronze section for proper members, as I can see the stats, but maybe one person in 20 comments!
We are all busy guys, I work full time as a qualified nurse
I find myself reading posts from 5 years ago!
How is that relevant?
Be kind people, if you agree, say so, if not make a statement, say why not!
Pay it forward, thats what it is all about
Typical Born Again Bander, lol
Thank you for posting. I know I don't always comment on posts because I am still newly post op, and to be honest, some days I find it hard to write things, but I am reading every day and find other peoples journeys immensely helpful - especially when I am trying to work out if what I am experiencing is normal or something to worry about. I will try to join in more.
I have also noticed this, as I browse through old threads, and wonder sometimes if people are just out there having so much fun they don't have time for the internet anymore!
I follow the rules to the max, at target 18 months ago, lost my weight, no scars, blar blar blar, size 8, 8 stone, 20 20 20 for the rest of my life
Its a struggle, life is always a struggle, and I will always need support, I welcome help if its there
But I still come on here seeking help, I maybe a size 8 and 8 stone, but I still have a chubby girl's hang ups, before you judge me
And if you come on here looking for help, remember how you felt a few months ago
FAT, LONELY, HELPLESS, DISGUSTING, UGLY, SWEATY, UNSEXY, FRIENDLESS, UNTRENDY, UNNOTICED, UNATTRACTIVE, UNEMPLOYABLE, ALWAYS HAVE TO BE THE FUNNY FRIEND
Pay it forward, don't read and run, stop bitching about the app has gone, Its gone, get over it x
HOW DID YOU FEEL THIS TIME LAST YEAR, OR THE YEAR BEFORE, OR THE YEAR BEFORE THAT?
Love and a million best wishes from Daisy, a massively happy Bander
FAT, LONELY, HELPLESS, DISGUSTING, UGLY, SWEATY, UNSEXY, FRIENDLESS, UNTRENDY, UNNOTICED, UNATTRACTIVE, UNEMPLOYABLE, ALWAYS HAVE TO BE THE FUNNY FRIEND
I too sometimes wonder where certain people are I guess as time goes by people just move on with life, feel like maybe they have nothing to share once the " honeymoon " period is over but they have,some lurk in the background and once in a while their "likes" will be seenTbh, I'm a bit sad today
All of my surgery buddies have disappeared, and never post
This site is about helping others, seeking advice especially
But where are all the 2014 Banders/ Bypassers / Sleevers?
( not kar & Bear, my lovely surgery buddies, but the other 95%? )
My diary is a bit boring, I know it is, lol
A lot of people read it, even though its in the bronze section for proper members, as I can see the stats, but maybe one person in 20 comments!
We are all busy guys, I work full time as a qualified nurse
I find myself reading posts from 5 years ago!
How is that relevant?
Be kind people, if you agree, say so, if not make a statement, say why not!
Pay it forward, thats what it is all about
Typical Born Again Bander, lol
I follow the rules to the max, at target 18 months ago, lost my weight, no scars, blar blar blar, size 8, 8 stone, 20 20 20 for the rest of my life
Its a struggle, life is always a struggle, and I will always need support, I welcome help if its there
But I still come on here seeking help, I maybe a size 8 and 8 stone, but I still have a chubby girl's hang ups, before you judge me
And if you come on here looking for help, remember how you felt a few months ago
FAT, LONELY, HELPLESS, DISGUSTING, UGLY, SWEATY, UNSEXY, FRIENDLESS, UNTRENDY, UNNOTICED, UNATTRACTIVE, UNEMPLOYABLE, ALWAYS HAVE TO BE THE FUNNY FRIEND
Pay it forward, don't read and run, stop bitching about the app has gone, Its gone, get over it x
HOW DID YOU FEEL THIS TIME LAST YEAR, OR THE YEAR BEFORE, OR THE YEAR BEFORE THAT?
Love and a million best wishes from Daisy, a massively happy Bander
You are the voice of reason on here, you will always be needed/wanted x
I agree with the paying it forward, and I still look on here regularly for support and inspiration
I just wish people would update how they are doing, its really sad when you follow someone's journey, then they disappear, its like watching a really good movie and missing the last 20 minutes x