calmed down again,and yes its for the best , just wish shed said a bit sooner , only booked they honeymoon lastweek and i know money aint important, been both ends of that situation in my life ,but her poor dad had paid in full after a year on deposits,just feel for him really ,my eldest son got divorced so i know how hard that is ,luckily no children, ,and yes i agree better to stop it now,it just shocks me to see the amount of people that live together for years ,and as soon as the wedding and marriage comes along it destroys everything,both my sons were in happy longterm relationships, life is a rollercoaster of emotions and no one knows the future,my big strong son looks so young and lost and says his so lonely without her,all i can tell him is better to be on your own and lonely ,than in a relationship and still lonely,that he deserves to be loved as much as he loves x , i have nothing to help him, just time and cuddles,sorry to be a misery x this forum,should be on the nhs , really does help to unload x