well as big as i am i dont give a rats arse how i look if i want to go swimming i go, if i want to wear shorts and t-shirts in the summer i do,if people dont like what they see they can f**K off and turn around . i have never worried about what i want to wear esp in the summer . i have never had anyone say anything to me yet, and even if they did id just laugh at them and tell what i think ... so minxy if u want to go swimming just go mate . what people think is there problem, you need to tell yourself just how bloody fantastic you have done, and so what is u have moobs, so do a lot of other men and im sure there are a lot of guys with bigger ones so jump in and have fun .... and be proud......