ahhhh a flip of the coin and both very valid points. I agree Mark yes you do have to be brave to put yourself at risk but what I think the ladies meant were people who are ignorant of the facts and try to patronise you with their empty meaningless words of praise, it is amazing how one comment can be so loaded and i hate those kind of people who think their words fall on deaf ears, we were or are overweight not uneducated and thick, but yes Mark we are all brave wonderful people.
