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My Ramblings...

Hey all all, how goes it?

I am doing as well as I can be, chugging along and doing my best to stay hydrated and nourished. Something I have been able to keep down lately, is Maccacino. Its an organic mix of Maca Powder, Cacoa Powder and Coconut Sugar (the tiniest amount, I can't bear anything sweet). I mix it with Organic Oat Milk and heat it through. I can only manage a small, small, cup but its lovely and very good for me. I am off for my Pre-Op Assessment tomorrow (as you know) and then I have Ava's fifth birthday to look forward to on Friday and God willing a family outing to a fireworks display on Saturday night. I am in two minds about the latter, if I am totally honest. I just don't want to risk picking up a chill and causing more delays. That being said, I won't stop everyone else from going along and having fun. I'll just task them with taking plenty of pictures and video footage!

I am utterly freezing all of the time and the only thing that warms my meager body is a long, hot shower. An undertaking that occurs at least 3 times a day lately!!! Sitting there and allowing the water to beat my skin feels is divine! It probably costs a small fortune but needs must...That's what I keep telling myself anyway. Ha! I am not sure (in fact I know for a certainty) that Andrew would disagree. Ha!

Ava is so looking forward to her birthday. We have decided to invite a few of her new school chums over and I will set the table for a small tea party. Princess themed of course! I find it so adorable that Ava and her little friends run to hug each other each morning when they enter the playground. Gosh, I love children. Their minds are so unburdened and so have the pleasure of doing whatever comes naturally to them and that is usually something incredible and/or thought provoking.

Maxi's potty training. He spent a couple of days happily trotting off to the toilet on his own and now, for reasons we do not understand has taken to wetting pooing himself again. Sigh...It is what it is. He will get there in his own kiddie time.

Cameron's soup. The boy has been whipping up so many variations that I think we need to start thinking about setting up some kind of weekend catering venture for him! Honestly, the boy has skills, that need nurturing! :D His father puts in a request and Cameron makes a list of what he will need, its purchased and he then gets to work. You should see him in the kitchen. He takes such pride in it all and seeing his dad gulp it down puts a wonderful look of happiness on his face.

We got his school progress report yesterday, full of A's an B's. What else could we ask for?

My mind feels like there is a constant breeze flowing through it lately. Its wonderful and I am so grateful that I have managed to find my way back here. I have been reading, taking in so much information, taking notes and retaining so much valuable knowledge. I feel liberated by it, by not feeling my head so much with what other think and sharing what I have taken in freely.

One book that I am reading at present is Mindful Eating by Jan Chosen Bays, MD. What an eye opening collection of pages, especially for those of us who have struggled with emotional, binge, eating.Again, its this call to being aware, of mindfulness. Something you have heard me speak of before. Its is such a remarkable tool, truly. I would highly recommend that you give it whirl.

I recently ordered a book called, Transitions:Making Sense of Life's Changes by William Bridges. I am yet to begin but it was recommended to me by a Life Coach and has rave reviews. As you know, this time in our lives is fraught with changes (some good, some not so much) and anything that will help us to deal with those has to be worth a bit of time.

I am sat on the sofa and am ready to start watching The Lord of the Rings or something within that franchise. I love them! There is something about these films that fills me with a sense of "please don't end". Ha! They are so magical and exciting; I literally sit with my heart in my mouth, taking in every inch of our large screen, every move, word that comes from the well portrayed characters. The Elves are such beautiful, enchanting creatures and their fighting skills?! Its as if they are dancing.

Oh no....I have just had a thought. Lord of the Rings will have to wait. I need to watch MasterChef: The Professionals. Marcus Wareing has taken the place of Michel Roux Jr and although I loved Michel, there is something about Chef Waring that gets me every single time!!! Lord Alive!
 
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I have the mindful eating book :)
 
What do you think of it Yve? I really do love it and use it as a good point of reference. There are so many things she speaks of that ring my inner bells.

It was lovely to meet you too Jem! The Preop did go well, my BP is as low as ever and the nurse felt very sorry for me. "You are just skin and bone", she said. And went on to voice her confusion as to why my last team could not see what was wrong with my stomach and why they had left me for so long. Then she waxed lyrical about MR. Haaa! I told you he was like a celebrity. She said that the other two surgeons on the team were just as competent (as we know) but most of the patients want him to do their surgeries. "Everyone talks about Marcus Reddy". And then she said some other awesome stuff.

Its nice to see how humble he is regardless.

I will keep in touch and let you know how I get on. You take care also, and let me know how you go with the feed/next appointment.
 
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You are in good hands Alex. I can't wait for you to be through this and getting on with the brilliant life you SHOULD have after WLS xxx

Any news on St A's - if there is a 'God', you of all people deserve the comforts! My recent breast surgery was at The Wellington (not my choice!), and I lay there wishing I was back at Cheam.
 
What a real treat that would be although from what I hear, it could also be quite dangerous. I may not want to leave the place!!
 
So, I need some tips on how to stay warm. I know a lot of us struggle with this but as I have Thalassimia trait I have been told that the cold will effect me even more than it is does the average WLS patient.

I am practically frozen solid sitting here on the sofa and I have on more clothes than are than my entire family put together (I am sure of it), plus I have a couple of hot water bottles on the go!!
 
St Ants is definetly my hospital of choice. Was inmate in 1973 (in the old building with the nuns), 1976, 1980, twice in 2012, 2013 and 2014. Plus countless out patients and physio.

To get warm, hug a small child?
 
I have been hugging Maxwell all day, he is sick of it. Haaaaa!
 
There was no time to hug anyone. Ava came home with her her school chums for her birthday tea party. They were like 5 year old's on speed and that was before they had any cake!! With all the excitement, I thankfully didn't have time to think about being cold.

Andrew has gone to work so its just me and the children tonight. We are all tucked up on the sofa, (Ava in her new Frozen Princess dress that she refuses to remove. Of course), watching Horrid Henry, Lego NinjaGo and Clarence. Maxi is stuffing his face with Brioche. And when I say stuffing I really do mean it. They are is absolute favourite and the way he eats them is quite frankly disgusting. But he is 3 and I suppose this is the one time in his life when he will be able to get away with such behaviour. Ava and Cameron are eating left over birthday cake and everyone is silent. Its lovely. LOL!

I adore days like this, nights like this. When its cold outside and we are all cosy and relaxed in the safest place we know.

4 more days to go, well 3 f you don't actually count Tuesday. Feeling at ease...

How are you feeling today Jem?
 
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Had a feed last night so I feel my energy levels are better today. This week has been a hell of a week and I'm looking forward to next Thursday where I have scheduled some much needed sleep So far this week I've been almost strip searched at gunpoint in a very very public airport. Apple have destroyed my iPhone and so far have only got back 60% of my phone. I threw up in my car on Tuesday evening and had to get my car valeted yesterday afternoon and they adjusted my headlights so I spent yesterday evening lining them ip on my wheelie bins. But my car passed its mot today. My hospital appointment this afternoon had no doctors so I have to go back again on Tuesday. Every day to next Wednesday is action packed. I also have a horrid pain in my tube which is getting really annoying. It was lovely to meet you yesterday, so calming
 
The airport story was utterly shocking; I think I would have burst into tears. The upsides though, were that you had on clean undies and that you are now slim. Ha!

You will really have earned that Thursday sleeping session. I really feel for you Jem, you say my journey has been long but yours has been full of so many up's and down's. I just don't know how you do it.

I hope they get to the bottom of this new pain in your tube and that its easily remedied. You don't need any more drama!!!!
 
Thinking of you as tomorrow fast approaches. Rest in the knowledge that you are not alone you will be held in prayer.

WE have a few problems at this end my daughter went for a growth scan as she was 36 weeks last Thursday. WE went with her moving and transferring hospitals. WEll midwife was bit arsey demanding why a growth scan. WEll she soon shut up because after the scan as she marked her personal chart with size of baby she explained that she has not grown for 4 weeks the growth has tailed off and she is weighing in at around 4lb 13 oz. There is only small amount of fluid aropund the baby which was another great concern. She went for the consultant and my daughter was distraught. That was FrIDAY LUNCH TIME. They have to go back this morning and the consultant will decide a course of action it may mean she has the baby early. WE are waiting to see. of course I am on 24HR shift today again just worrying all the time her and hubby and us as a family. They said if baby has stopped moving to go straight in over weekend, but she has been moving. She is a fighter. She was in early pregnancy when we went through the immigration courts earlier this year if that little one wasn't going to make it through it would have been then. The home office were wanting to send Abraham back to Nigeria. He has worked for the whole time he has been in England and put himself through universityspending more than £10,000 on his degree and masters. They wer wanting them to separate whilst pregnant and suggested she could come home and then join him out there once baby was born after the case we had to wait upto 3 weeks for the decision, you can imagine we were all in limbo and then to go through this she is a fighter, thye have been under lots of pressure and stress.

I am praying for you and our little one that you both are sorted by medical professionals with skilled hands and minds. xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
 
Oh Chrisa, I am so very sorry. I hope with all my heart that the baby will be alright. Please keep me posted. I will be thinking of you all.

I am all tucked up in bed and ready to go. I won't be seen too until the afternoon but was told to be at the hospital for 10am. I am so tired but can't seem to sleep. I am not in the least bit nervous though so I am not sure why? Typical! Lol!

Please take care and although it will be incredibly hard, try not to worry too much. God bless you. Xx
 
Good luck today Alex xx

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