Rude people or so called friends!!!

[phatmomma]

My point of view about people like this?

They need people like you and me. Because if they can point out our imperfections (and take it from me i don't see your butt as an imperfection and neither would a FA) because while people are pointing and laughing at us they are leaving them alone....

Rise above them, why should you answer to them? Every time you pass each and everyone of them tomorrow remember this... Your time is coming and you are gonna show them what a real sexy lady looks like, and it's not gonna be them looking in the mirror.

Karma is a wonderful place to live. I still delight in seeing my ex and the woman he left me for, who is now fatter than me Smile, cos inside you is a slimmer happier lady just waiting to get out and strut your funky stuff xxx

 

[anna2131]

aw hun thats nasty wat i wud personally bide mytime once iv had op lost the weight at the next social gathering get up from the table and say im just taking the big fat arse wiv me oh no that was last year you made your snide comment regarding the same arse i have now show her up for wat she is hun as im sure you will find a new found confidence after surgery gl xx

 

[Andy1968]

I have just been out with friends work colleagues for a quick drink. I have known these people for a long time and thought they were friends.

when I left someone said something about my fat backside and another said well she hadn't seen that for years.

Why do they think they have the right to insult another human and supposedly friend.

I have to work with these people tomorrow and am currently sitting crying. I thought it would be safe to go to a colleagues house for a drink and avoid those staring eyes and comments about the fat person. I hardly go put for that reason so thought I would be among friends and safe.OBVIOUSLY NOT

I have now had a rant and will try to put it to the back of my mind and hopefully it won't be too bad tomorrow.

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These people are sick in the head...I have strong feelings about these type of lowlifes and have been in a few ...shall we say... confrontations with a few of them.Someone came up to me a few weeks ago,a middle aged man,and told me to 'watch my weight'...Well i had my walking stick with me and raised it to him and politely suggested he left the way he came rather quickly....Sensibly he obliged.

I'm not a 'tough guy'...quite the opposite,but everyone has a boiling point and on that day i found mine.

The so called friends you have quite happily went away on their business of day to day activity,whilst you are deeply hurt by it, something i fully understand btw, and it's WRONG.

Why are people like us that have a problem such an outcast in Society??
I'm sorry you've experienced this as i know on a personal experience how much it hurts.

I hope you have a lovely Xmas hun...and sending Big hugs.

Take Care

Andy xx

 

[Julie2]

Hey Goof, You know that you are worth far more than they deserve in friendship! It's a pity you didn't say 'Oh god does my bum look big in this then?'.
Wait till you've had the surgery and start losing weight, they'll be so jealous and they'll start saying things like 'Oh she looks ill, must be something wrong with her'. You just can't do the right thing around these sort of people who obviously aren't friend material. Still, you can have the last laugh when you've lost some weight by telling them that it was their nasty comments that gave you the push to lose the pounds.
Don't despair there are hundreds of lovely people on this site willing to support you. Keep posting and don't let the b.....ds get you down. Best wishes.

 

[goofy07]

I would just like to say thank you to everyone for your support and understanding.

this time next year I should be a bit further on my journey and not have to put up with these pathetic comments .

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